Man always said, his wife, he often will not feel bad, but a headache! As a forum for dialogue a bit like the “chicken of the Duck said,” their statement, the implication is always a woman to guess another guess, and basically guessed.

I also think that women are naturally inclined puzzle game, so “Dream of Red Mansions,” where the eldest were nothing else to do always relish riddles and games; normal girls received the phone, the other like spoiled: “Guess Who, “I usually respond to such a surprise:” Gong Li, right? either the Maggie? “man and woman get along absolutely need a” sentiment of the heart “and not to go the to be empathetic with their echoes, bringing her to play instead of “fighting,” she gas.

If you love, you should know a woman heart, even if it is Haidilaozhen also be fought! Indeed, women in the workplace, communication is absolutely expert, but a home of their close people, especially the hardy man speech, generally like to “fast thinking” mystery heavy, difficult to decipher, in many cases “are so Anti said. “

When one day, she yells at you, “devil”, “bad guy” and even “rogue” or native of the “Sha Qiandao’s”, do not rush to defend or angry. She was a man with his irrelevant, is not its “scrape” and will not exit the above “Curse”, and so thinking, you will not easily upset or sad. Is accused of playing the so-called pain love is the reason.

A woman complaining about the purpose of expressing is a fact. They desire to find a loyal audience, such as husbands to share their deepest secrets. Describing the difficulties women may not want the men to help her solve practical problems, they often need to share the communication and discussion, to determine the mutual love, intimacy and strengthen the sense of security.

For example, the wife got home from work to play high-heeled shoes, a chair, throw pillow, blow bangs, and then tells a colleague how Xiaorendezhi, boss … how boring … as her eccentric man, first of all, can not be refuted, it should be against the common enemy; second no serious suggestions, if you hurry to give her last relationship course, it backfired, because she know better than you ways of the world; The third form of discipline the parents not to do: “you have wrong place … …” this does not work It is not OK, could do nothing on it? In fact, man is the most effective response effort: “I understand, you really wronged! Drink glasses of water vent its anger!” Then the wife, to have this kind of “public opinion” support and family “empathy” .

A man, over 30, the cause of small achievements. It stands to reason also to start considering when to marry, but he did not want. Asked the reason, The answer was: “no feeling for all the girls.” Not that they are frivolous affectation, is that they are hypocritical, not content. He said the drilling of these girls is stripped of light arms, he had no physical reaction. Asked him not in terms of problems, A: Definitely not. And see some of the gentle, thought Cishi, has a wife and women, even across the street, will feel an upsurge of phallic-vibrant waves. Therefore, over the past decade, did not talk about love, but secretly gave the green cap number of older men.

Man B, two years of marriage, beautiful wife disgruntled. Angry when their Acacia always eyes closed, I do not know the contents appreciate Sheng Yue. Moreover, the number had Houchu daughter, my colleagues in the name. Beautiful wife denounced the Cold War began, the men avoided no pet.

Man C, marriage is not over seven years has been itching. Wife, sister friends, brothers, friends, wife, have felt better than his wife. So looking forward to an ambiguous, with another round of fantastic taste. Started from close, and create opportunity. Suggest some, though by refusal, but there are gains dash.

These three men, the performance of different, but belong to the same disease. Wrong, can not be called disease. You think how can we read show that disease? What is wrong with the new requesting different chase them? Food color is the inherent nature of people, this is only one wife to the past.
Present, more and more men feel more light on the lover, while the growing interest in other people’s wives. What is the reason for this? This is mainly psychological factors at play.

First, keep different perspective. For his wife, quietly passing the time and slowly polished the old days of passion. It has immense advantages, in a pair of eyes staring at it, gradually lost its color. The screen acts as Chao Zhao compatible with mercy, those who have not seen the mottled exposed. Gradually, covered the advantages of the shortcomings of his wife became covered. The wife of others, because only the far-sighted, you can see only advantages. In comparison, his wife is getting worse, other people’s wife getting better. This will make some men more and more of their own wife did not feel other people’s wives are increasingly appreciated.

In fact, this is just a glimpse of far-sighted and near the problems. What you see are the advantages of others wife, appears in her husband, also has many shortcomings. Many marriages do not regret, regret that you did not appreciate the marriage of mind and eyes. For the wife, you better go find her beauty, to enlarge her beauty. Did not someone say you, life is not the lack of beauty is found missing.

Second, novelty requesting different psychological. His wife, a long time, not a novelty. Over time, the passion was time to dilute. The wife of others, because not always feel fresh. There will always be an infinite reverie, that posture, that the carcass, that every possible detail, will bring immense passion. This demand fresh, want to experience the feelings of psychological difference is that most male fantasy of wife reasons.

Third, the existence of incentives. Wanted a lot of things are not born, but there are triggers. As a man, his wife of normal girls who reject, not because of how cute the girls, nor had any girl’s injuries. But because not understand how lovely girl before he realized the man’s wife to bring their own physical and mental pleasure. That the initial shock, let him believe it was the best, most wonderful, most bring their own joy to give. This feeling became his age girls to resist a poison.

Fourth, conquering. For those who see how good their own people how his wife, made her heart it is a conquest. Everywhere in their own eyes a good or even very proud of the person’s wife placed under the body, it is a kind of conquest. This conquest is unique to domineering men, but also an affirmation of their self-confidence and passion and inspire the performance. Such psychological, often is more likely not to want more, but not the more they insist on getting more.

Fifth, inspire a sense of achievement. In the experience of fresh, met after the conquest, it was induced by a passion to be eager to experience the next, and then the next, amassing the next fresh. Differences of this kind to be new again, let those men to be conquered again and again, the pleasure of others, which make them more sense of accomplishment. Some even make up for their own goals, locking some people, or reach a certain number.

For adults, the sexual, the wife of a man who complex, we use the moral well judged. Sexologist not say you, people are sexual rights. The right to seek their own right, some burst out of the depths of human thought and behavior, and no mistake. However, as an important part of life, marriage, or needs a stable. Similarly, the society needs stability. You always staring at someone else’s wife, your wife may also be other people watching. When you order a gift to the other men had a green cap but secretly, when the private hi, you may have been a string of green hat firmly in custody.
Green refused to cap, you start from. Men, with others to plot his wife do not blame you. But think you can, do not practice.

TOP10 Keywords: peep

They started walking down the street. Suddenly, he pulled her to stop, hand gently under a lid eyelashes brushed aside. She ran across happiness. Call away eyelashes but fingertips of small, but fully explain his focus her attention 100%. If he had not carefully reading her favorite, how can find just a small drop of eyelashes? No woman can resist a man so “stealing color.”
TOP9 Key words: conservation

Walking in the bustling intersection, he suddenly advantage of the opportunity to push her from the left to the right side of the body, with a burly body to block preparations for her launch vehicle. She surprises harder and harder. Today’s women find husbands, not as a long-term meal ticket, they need to play. Man walked inside her care, she stopped for a meal biting air-conditioning, a camel asylum allow a woman warrior moved.
TOP8 Keywords: recall

She likes to eat “cute and more”, so the refrigerator was never out of stock. Suddenly one day, the refrigerator with Zhang memo he wrote: “I’m sorry dear, sweet chocolate flavor more than sold out, today, you may wish to try strawberry.” Not Chixue Gao, she has heart like irrigation honey. Careless, he often can not remember his birthday, but I remember her measurements for size, remember her menstrual cycle, remember that she was allergic to the mango. The reason men remember well because he was her obsession.
TOP7 Keywords: wife slave

She bath accidentally scratched hand, he painfully grabbed her underwear, said: “Do not touch the water hand hurt later to hand wash the clothes to me.” When they love, get married, he still personally every day wash her underwear, she proudly told the Inner secret: “I married a Mighty Man.” persistent labor can move a man a woman. Zhao’s last wish is to Zhang Wuji for her Miaomei shows another forceful woman, a wife is also keen to have slaves.
TOP6 Keywords: suspicious

Meet them to reservoir fishing. Out, he suddenly returned home to take an umbrella fold, without a word handed it her arms, her chest and a hot, moving inexplicable. Man’s eye-not a good thing too, but they could care a little more than a little more. Spring date equipment umbrella, summer appointment to prepare insect repellent, lip balm with supporting fall, winter and prepare a scarf. It is this affordable warmth, sense of well-being of women to prepare.
TOP5 Keywords: trivial

Dinner, he pre-empt the debris scraped bamboo chopsticks; soup, he spread out in the side of her long hair and stroked the ears; steamed fish and serve, he also tick off fishbone, to meet at her appetite. He said trivial like a maid, she says that he is worthy of the world, marry a good man. Songs to sing: “To say that love, love to do.” Trivial love a man acts like every possible infiltration of the mother, a woman How does it move?
TOP4 Key words: focus

They hang around in the book market. Shelves in the tool before he suddenly stopped, meticulously searching for a computer book, serious eyes sparkling with wisdom, light, and she could not help but eyebrows. Many women like to watch the men work, men at work, There is something like a nail “axis Jin”, cited numerous women Reverie: If the focus used to love me this time!
TOP3 Keywords: Love me, love my dog

He is sweating and his head in the office busy, but she in and laughing. Phone, she said: “I do not blame the group of women to buy banana smoothies.” I know he did, put down the work at hand taxi to Starbucks. Banana smoothie when he sent a group of women before, she not only feel the face, and feeling extremely shocked. Really love her do not have to fall in love with her crows on the roof. If a man her family and when one of us to treat heart moved, a woman will take action, and his friends without distinction.
TOP2 Key words: Respect

They have not reached the point of intimacy. Travel together, she wept in their seats to steal, he quietly one way or another to switch off lights in the window and let her vent when not too embarrassing. Her mood suddenly turned fine, finds he is a trustworthy person. Love is important, but respect a woman’s feelings and dignity of the subjective than blind love is more important.
TOP1 Keywords: hug

Each finished goodbye, he always firmly hold her in his arms, silently staring at her eyes, reaches the end of the world seems to let go of the general. Often at this time, she would mind if Luzhuang, would like to hold it to the other forever. No desire to embrace the most touching, to borrow the theory that Archimedes: Give me a hug, I can have all your love.
(From Australia, “Australian New Express”)

Taiwan-funded hospital in Nanjing test water

The success of BenQ Hospital, Nanjing floor, marking the start of Taiwan-funded manufacturing enterprises “test the water,” China’s health care market. Taiwan-funded hospital services, public advocacy cheap, high quality health care, good hospital management of Taiwan to the mainland land DNA transplant, however, inevitably lonely pioneer, BenQ Hospital, somewhat “acclimatized.”
Die Zeit reporter Wang Jue Lei from the bottom of the Nanjing

While only 12 oncology patients, a doctor Yang Jun has been like a top as the very limit. 8 am to go to work, he often 7:10 went to the hospital out-patient room prior to seize the moment and check again.

Because the admiration of advanced management system of hospitals in Taiwan, Yang Jun switched to Nanjing BenQ Hospital. In public hospitals, private hospitals and many years experience, Yang Jun, a habit from not accustomed to the process: “Other hospitals and up to twice a week out-patient director, Charles two rooms, to bed for some pointers on the line of doctors. In Here, every day out in the morning at the check should be a room. “

However, it is also because “the attending physician responsibility,” another doctor come here especially Li Wei (a pseudonym) has chosen to leave. Li Wei from Shanghai switched to a public hospital, BenQ vice chief physician, wanted “an eye-opener,” some knowledge of advanced hospital management and medical skills. But the fact that made his disappointment with a sigh, a few months out of the reach of several cases. “A doctor must be a considerable number of cases to the opportunity of bettering their own technology, or medicine is difficult to improve.” Strict technical level and hospital doctors to subordinates or change little room for initiative and seriously belittle.

Last year in May, Xiamen Chang Gung, Nanjing BenQ allowed to open when exactly is announced on the eve of healthcare reform plan. Expected with the Taiwan-funded hospital quality DNA can provide a successful health care reform sample. And Yang Jun, Li Wei, as people saw BenQ hope and disappointment.
Different hospitals

“Say No tired to be false, but really a kind of sense of value realization, a kind of noble life-saving sense of respect for our patients also.” Yang Jun said. This from the BenQ Group owns 70% of the Taiwanese hospitals, and in the past mainly for foreign medical suppliers in China to provide foreign and domestic rich Western-style medical services are different, BenQ Hospital, mainly for the Chinese general public, to provide parity , high-quality medical services.

Zhang Shuying was very satisfied with the BenQ Hospital, she felt “special atmosphere is good, people feel comfortable, one-third of patients went first.” Midnight on December 25 last year, Zhang Shuying in serious car accident, three broken ribs, spleen removed, his right hand three finger fractures, admitted to the ICU ward BenQ.

In the ICU ward, a nurse responsible for nursing her in the room with another patient. “Primary care” is a unique BenQ hospital care system, patients admitted to finished, there is a nurse specialist care, full responsibility, clear understanding of the patients in the chest. General ward, a nurse will be responsible for seven patients, patient care injections, medicine, the help the patient to the toilet, the patient open water, hot meals, changing clothes and so on chores, also doing my part. Transferred to the night shift nurses, patients have to notice every detail before it can shift. “A long time, the patient will be feeling. To see patients in their intensive care, the better day by day, will be very pleased.” Cheng said oncology nurse Zan.

BenQ hospitals, “the attending physician full responsibility system”, only the director of each department are eligible to receive patients, once treated, the patient became, director of the “attending physician” in the patient’s treatment and rehabilitation process in the negative full responsibility, must track followed up after discharge.
Young patients often have to plug a red envelope, he declined: “received a red envelope, taking kickbacks from hospitals ‘high voltage’, once found, will be dismissed.” Patients can only send a banner to change.

Jiangming Zhou is deputy executive director of BenQ Hospital, specializes in hospital management, while another over the leadership of president of medical affairs. “Subordinate staff no-seeking mission and needs. And, the hospital has a rigid structure to eliminate the ‘big prescription inspection’, so that complete separation of doctors and medicine.”
Jiangming Zhou said, BenQ Hospital, strict drug supply management process, cut off the doctor and the drug suppliers of exposure.

According to Jiang Mingzhou introduced into the drug process BenQ hospitals are broken into many areas, a variety of drug required to list the other proposed prices with the pharmaceutical supply arrange with the specific purchase another one from the other commitment, acceptance of drugs into the library and back to people. “No one will be responsible for the whole, there can be no rebates pharmaceutical suppliers to send from.”
Doctors will be sent to the hospital prescription drugs Commission inspection, monitoring, identification of which have medicinal drug duplication, drug and disease extent applicable, and the dose is appropriate.

The data provided by the hospital showed BenQ, BenQ Hospital spending per capita, compared with public hospitals in Nanjing, there are certain advantages. Among them, the cataract phacoemulsification + intraocular lens implantation cost about 5,087 yuan, similar to other hospitals; cholecystectomy only cost 6,492 yuan, less than half of the Drum Tower Hospital, 14,639 yuan; lumbar disc excision cost about 4021 yuan than the top three public hospitals in Nanjing are cheaper than doubled.
Good chanting Quemo eat

Although BenQ practice since, as can be inexpensive medical care, attentive service, “treating patients as pro-” purpose, but not popular or BenQ Hospital, Wong must face the harsh reality now. It is understood that after 1.1 billion in the upfront investment, BenQ current monthly injection of 5 million had to maintain the hospital’s daily operations.

“BenQ’s model to run a non-profit-profit hospitals, effective not so fast.” Jiang Mingzhou idea is that word of mouth by the patient to build up popularity. As the way of the future profit, Jiang Mingzhou planning is the introduction of multiple shareholders, the same time, special medical and medical control PPP ratio of 2:8 to the lucrative special medical feeding back and forth to serve the public health parity. “BenQ of Taiwan hospital management hospital transplant excellent DNA, with good management performance.” Jiang Mingzhou quite confident on the future of BenQ.

However, the management system will inevitably shift acclimatized. The biggest problem is the talent that building. “Mainland medical doctors, there are research and teaching for preferential treatment, which is currently lacking in BenQ. In addition, the relatively stable position, the money for retirement, are the advantages of the mainland hospital.”
BenQ development that the Government is a major bottleneck. According to industry sources, BenQ’s medical column does not belong to the domestic leaders, and has revealed the potential brain drain crisis.

According to several top three hospitals in Nanjing to reflect the current BenQ did not form the health care market in Nanjing too much, because of its remoteness, technology is difficult to match the other top three hospitals, outpatient services is extremely rare, they almost never felt BenQ landing the pressure.
“BenQ Hospital, Nanjing, to reach the level of the other top three hospitals, need at least a decade.”
Nanjing Health Bureau of Medical Affairs, Mr Hui people’s livelihood, the recent development of the BenQ is not very promising. “The biggest obstacle is the talent. For various reasons, experts do not want to go private hospitals, which greatly restricted the private hospital development. After all, the favorable disease is the most important, the patient to the hospital for medical treatment is ultimately not to enjoy the service . “

“BenQ serious shortage of investment in scientific research, which is a common problem with the hospital business office. Before the Chang Gung Memorial Hospital in Taiwan have had similar problems, too mean in scientific research funding, more willing to invest to produce earnings in the medical and drug on. This area not conducive to attracting talent, on the other hand, will restrict the growth of hospital technology. “
Familiar with the Nanjing health system belies the industry think so.

“If BenQ could not be gaining rapidly in great financial pressure, there may be a disguised profit index decomposition to the medical head. Thus, BenQ has lost its most valuable DNA, eventually assimilated the mainland hospital. This is our do not want to see, but not impossible. “

Patients develop long-Mainland’s “taste” and also had some frustration to BenQ. “Patients like hanging Mainland water, cold water, you do not hang him, he thought you did not give him treatment. While in Taiwan, we do not advocate hanging over the water.” Jiang Mingzhou cited an example.

The two sides of the dislocation more than that. In BenQ, Mr WU sent an open seen joking with the events near. Pockets of affluent patients with a stay BenQ day, that is attentive to the doctor brought a lot of money in red envelopes, hoping to get special attention. Unexpectedly, the doctor some arbitrarily refused. The patient immediately lost faith in the hospital, and the attitude that the poor do not receive a red envelope means that doctors have a bias against him, not conscientious treatment. The patient was immediately transferred.

BenQ’s ideas and to China’s current health care system, there are disagreements between. According to BenQ’s philosophy, the patient was discharged after surgery, does not mean the end of medical care, doctors will follow-up treatment and inspection. The patient after the examination costs, Medicare will not pay, patients are often reluctant to make further checks.
“Taiwan and the mainland are two models of integration, take some time, we also try to debug, run-in.” Jiangming Zhou said.
Provide medical model Gaixiao

The new round of medical reform program rules introduced soon, which the reform of public hospitals has also been put on the agenda. BenQ models on medical reform can provide a reference and inspiration? Mr WU’s view is yes. “Complex of conflicting interests is China’s medical reform has been an insurmountable barrier. BenQ Hospital, a small sample, doctors and medicine to prove the complete rupture is possible, as long as there is financial commitment and measures.”

“BenQ Hospital, the biggest bright spot is cut off between the interests of the doctor-patient ties, efforts to restore the real face of medical life-saving.” Familiar with the health system in Nanjing that belies the industry. “Between doctors and patients, should never have economic interests there, with interest on the growth-promoting ideas and personal considerations, the resulting health care ills.”

In Mr WU eyes, BenQ Hospital, with a “different” experience in hospital management in Taiwan, in Nanjing, “in any case is a good thing,” rigid domestic monopoly health care system played a role in a small lever. “If such a hospital floor 100, the situation on the large differences in public hospitals will have a tremendous impact, and promote its transformation. Taiwan’s outstanding DNA can thrive and spread.”

However, Mr WU that can not be overstated BenQ’s example. In his view, BenQ Hospital, the medical expenses are not really cheap, and can only say is similar to public hospitals. “Only a few operations are competitive in price, it may also be out of their advertising needs. To achieve the real goal of medical reform, removal of the common people ‘Expensive’ of chronic illness, BenQ is not much reference to sex. “

Domestic “the first person to third-party health care,” Zhao Guoxiong network medical expenses Zhao Guoxiong founder of “McDonald’s” to describe the domestic medical market. “Appears to have tens of thousands of hotels, only one, all McDonald’s outlets only, no competition with each other, only the distinction between business areas.’s Domestic hospital looks a lot, in fact, the same core system, BenQ’s arrival is indeed a good, and so was not the same as opening a new hospital. “

“The level of medical costs, labor costs should eventually be the difference falls on a doctor. If the bill BenQ no extra items, but high labor costs of doctors, health care reform that is quite the right direction. For example, the same is to see a X-rays, specialists and general practitioners should pay not the same as, or even a difference of ten times, which reflects the level of professional respect. If all the hospitals can do, will compete with each other, the price eventually will drop. “Zhao Guoxiong said.
It’s knowledge, in the present BenQ, do a surgery, the President and Director of doctors and even doctors the same price control bed and did not reflect the labor cost gap.

BenQ self-value on the “treating patients as pro” service, Zhao Guoxiong is not very concerned about, “services, medical technology is not the most important evaluation criteria for good or bad a hospital is able to pay the minimum cost to the patient, to obtain the highest possible efficiency of medical. In this regard, BenQ seems no good. “

Nanjing Health Bureau of Medical Affairs, Mr Hui people’s livelihood that, BenQ Hospital, almost all the advantages of hardware: the investment volume, large scale, good environment, advanced medical devices, while the BenQ “patient-centered,” the essence of service Xu livelihood is “not anything new to see.” “‘Patient-centered’ public hospitals has also been stressed, but the service is excellent and some of BenQ, which is more flexible mechanism of private hospital decided to use appointment system, performance appraisal and other leveraged, emphasis on patient services. This public hospital has been difficult to promote. “
“BenQ Hospital Outpatient now very small, if it is also the same as the Drum Tower Hospital, Japanese outpatients of five, 6000, also adhering to the high quality of service, is also a problem.”
Hsu said the people’s livelihood.

Said the money man, money guy hard. In fact, the rich lady lady can not afford to do. Girls money more than the money men sad. Money men do not despair, think of ways to make money. Girl thinking about their own money to liberate themselves, not so much. Women’s abundant resources, can do with youth capital. Men do not like, no way to go also to go, even death is one way.

When a man is easy to despair, violence appears to restore their all, even great risk to be tried again, with luck psychology. Girls desperate times, often to better understand the authenticity of the world, easier to use their bodies in exchange for the future.

Girls wearing no money, no money to eat, no money to catch up with fashion, a girl’s sad, this girl is not a capacity of not, is not good at their own social skills, originally considered a disgrace. When the girl desperate, did not expect and rely on the time, it will take the road to ruin.

When the girls take a separate course, when I found the very wide and many, but each one can go, is to be aware of. If a woman is really the time to fight it, who do not believe that she only believes money, because money can give her freedom and sense of security, do not have to worry about anything, do not have to worry about anything. Money is all woman, dignity, status, honor and all. Money are not afraid of much, or even afraid to use tools. As long as the expected return on their own figures.

Larger lakes women, is also the case began to walk, but when she reached a certain age, when she asked for a stable life, only to find money not their own, only those that spent their own, saved up In addition to scar the mind there is nothing that lay on the master and save money. The time when the supply disruption, they only know what has always been a risk, so Xiangjia good man, but in their eyes no longer good man, and married individuals is not easy to find. Experience to see through all their own, anxious not used. Older women are Xiangjia is to marry, not the people do not, that she was too picky, picks around the rest of the self.

Age and then bigger guy, they want to really no one dared to marry, and another old woman with a luxurious, also traces the vicissitudes of life, those traces of indulgence is not blocked, and the original by young money, it is now by their thinking and hard work, and how much still be mixed with an element of cheating, because they really are very few opportunities to make money, have no equity and ability than the ability of those young girls, and only had a bitterly of the want.
Women more than men live money more difficult, hard to make life difficult for themselves in their own. In fact, good, to find someone to marry, and the two struggle, the outcome is very happy.