Each person's past can not be a white, while its not necessary to lay it in the account of things past, which is frankly stupid beyond, especially being abandoned or break up that sort of thing must not mention .

First, love the expression of a person not from the mouth, not every day said to him "I love you," became a mantra talk too much and not the truth, to quote a famous insight: a woman never let a man know she love him, he will be so arrogant, not more full of love charm in the heart do?

Second, telephone calls, enough is enough. Up to twice a day to his call, a special exception, the phone hung up in each other something more to say when the first, to maintain an appropriate sense of mystery, like the chattering of women without men.
Third, very few people could love one, love to break out of ten ended, so ladies should just normal to approach this issue, whether or parting celebrations should take it easy.

Without whom the day had to down too. Cantonese said: good to good to go. Do not cry 2 of a busy three-hanging, this would only become very poor themselves, in the eyes of others only a fool only.

Fourth, men and women are the main characters in love, no one quits, the same love and be loved is a blessing, not because of who have love, so be assertive, to understand properly refused, yielding too much of the a cowardly, as time goes on to become love slaves.

5, money is a sensitive topic, but related to the reality of a love interest of men and women immediately fell out of the case not unusual. Emotional feelings go, money, go money, not to the point where husband and wife should be split, there will be no disputes in the economy, so throw good money off soldiers, and finally to a red in the face of worship.

6, until the appropriate time, never forced, so when you love someone you'll want to last forever, this time on the long gonna get married, he kept his friends put a car or house wedding ah, ah, obviously eager to get married white on his face. If the other party want to get married, you do not buy the ring you will automatically imply the contrary you will scare away the desire that his bluff.

7, not for his child, in modern society, many single mothers is that they have certain economic ability and mental endurance. If you want to use children to yoke a man would be too wise, you can not let each other take responsibility for you, it is not going to be responsible for a life, it is not self-inflicted trouble?

8, loved it wants, but do not stay together every day, love, vitality is limited shelf to make love longer necessary to maintain a proper distance and temperature, if they have physical relations, intimate relations, do not put Do not you marry a non-out look, this is a threatening hint; sex is a common feeling, is the sublimation of feelings, not as emotional golden rule.

9, remember, your love is only a part of your life. San Mao once said that my heart has many rooms, Jose has only just come to sit. Everyone should have their own social circle, do not because of him and all his friends off the contacts, only make your life more and more narrow.

10, and learn to drink less vinegar fly fewer tears, do not be too care about each other's past, Gan Mafei should have his vintage almanac turned out? Each person's past can not be a white, while its not necessary to lay it in the account of things past, which is frankly stupid beyond, especially being abandoned or break up that sort of thing must not mention . Do not sing to men Teresa Teng's "I only care about you", even if he will be very impressed at first, gradually will feel depressed.

Blue Kit is unfortunate, married for 12 years, although the left against the right defense, she still could not escape the shadow of the husband derailment; can she is lucky, when the problem occurred, she not only successfully solved, and found the problems in order to find yourself a brand new way of life.

Failed to get out from the blue cleaning just one sentence: the woman of marriage is important, but far from all of us.
I must first know that this relationship can not continue

Once heard that: the greatest tragedy is not a woman abandoned by men, but was duped by a man, that he was the last to know. This only shows that they do not attach importance to their marriage, not a little effort to operate their own emotionally in marriage is inevitable red light things.

However, this sentence to me is not true. I spent so much effort to maintain marriage, the husband to take care of perhaps extension of the sea, whether from the perspective of modern or traditional, and I are a good wife. But all is not
Economy in the matter. And me the most angry is that the woman has the phone to call my bedroom, is simply destroy the Huanglong ah! Extension of the woman claiming to be the sea's girlfriend, she said, and the extension of the sea have known each other for over three years, her mouth
Air was full of disdain and contempt for me.
Received this call, is a Saturday morning class to extend Hai Jia, and his son go to school calligraphy class, and I was humming songs wearing pajamas in the bedroom to do mask. Current
I still remember that day the sun are particularly good, the dust particles in the incoming beam of light shines into the window in the fly, the moment the call, those dust suddenly become extremely clear in the 12 years of marriage, the dots of what
Child out of the whole against the background.

Extension of the sea in a commercial bank to do customer manager, decent income, but also is a big handsome guy. I am the only one in our city insurance company, and he belong to the financial system, so I will join them the end of each line in the Spring Festival Gala. Soulful see him on stage to sing, the audience constantly screaming woman gang, the kind of situation, like "Meteor Garden" in the Jerry to the general.

Which is why I see more tight extension of the sea. We must work every day the phone, other account managers, and key customers together, often off the phone, but the extension of the sea, he never dared. These leaders are aware of them,
Even cited an example: keep an eye on customers, on the extension of the sea like a wife stare, like him, can not relax in the slightest! Extension of the sea almost to tears to my joke: Do you think you, the management experience of her husband across the country about it!

I know that sometimes he was a strict control of some, but not all for this home? I did not trust the extension of the sea, now with so many temptations, which can be reassuring men? But I did not expect, so thousands of anti-anti million, ultimately fall short.

However, I own all surprised that the impact of that woman, I would just calmly say "I know" and then put down the phone. I do not want a crying two trouble, especially in the face of another woman, it would seem I
Very weak, useless. I have to do my mask, and his soul is returned in the envisaged extension of the sea all the circumstances: to him in the face? Now to pack clothes back to her parents? Or to please her mother to help me reprimanded One who ... ...

However, extension of the sea back home at night, watching the action he was familiar, but I suddenly changed his mind. I am as calm as usual, cooking, washing dishes, watching TV, just about to sleep, I pretend to casually wrote: I am a woman received the phone. Yan was shocked about the sea, and soon said: Some people may joke right.

Well, this is his answer to my question, I do not pursue. Do not think I completely believed him. The facts, I do not believe, but his answer gave me a message: time to conceal the relationship, he shows he does not want to end our relationship. It shows that this has lasted 12 years, the relationship may still be saved.
Battle of the feelings of calm a woman's essential weapon

A few days, we had finished our dinner, watching TV, the woman again the phone. Or I am going, this time she said a lot. She said that extension of the sea with her, because the extension of the sea told her she did not point the face of pressure, that
Very relaxed, so she felt between them is the real heart to heart communication, rather than me, but no passion to live together. Now, she has divorced, the only obstacle is me, so I automatically quit.

Phone, the woman kept asking for my position. I said dismissively: "I understand, you seem to love my husband, you want to marry him, right? Well, please yourself to tell him that he was willing to marry you is his thing, and I have nothing to do; As I would not want to divorce him, that was my thing, me and you know him, do not need to tell you. "

So far things have been pretending to watch TV in the extension of the sea can not re-hide passed. Watch them on the phone arguing, I was only a feeling: This guy bored, well this woman stupid! The woman on the phone asked me to meet her again, this time I agree, but I went with and extension of the sea. Marriage is at least two things, I do not need one person to bear.

After the meeting, the woman said she was blind and extension in the sea interaction in the details, even privacy, she might have wanted to provoke me, I quit. Extension of the sea looking at the side of his face filled with an awkward and annoying. I thought suddenly
However, very pleasant, so far, I have been occupying the initiative, but also appears to extend the sea has also tasted the bitter affair. Perhaps this calamity but allow us to more deeply see now marriage.

So I interrupted the woman, then smiled and told her: you do not have to tell the details of the bed, and I and the extension of sea-life of 12 years, the details of many more than you only if the ratio of these, surely lose you. If you think that marriage should be on the bed on, you were so chaotic mess. You think you would be better to tell me that I can see some concrete proposals to you.

Hearing these words, that woman totally ignorant, and began to hum and haw to emphasize how much she is married to and extension of the sea. I turned to ask the extension of the sea: "What do you think?" Extension of the sea, of course it is impossible. This makes the woman very angry, the more
That the more furious, and even talked about the loss of youth and compensation. This time attracted me laugh, I told her: "Yes, our family's money, I charge, I can pay you. Please invoice it, but you must specify the project with
Way. How are you going to write it? "
Day, I always extend myself and the sea closely linked to the overall appearance of a marriage, the other side feel that he is a ridiculous outsider. When the woman
Tears started to curse when the extension of the sea, but my heart has little pity for her, after all, this extension of the sea should bear a great responsibility, but, sorry, I said silently in my heart: Marriage is not a toy, not transferable, First of all, I have to protect their family complete.
Treat yourself, I put a second marriage

After that meeting, as I hope, extend the sea and cut off from the woman, however, this does not mean that my marriage has peace of mind, and rival though receded, but the marriage is still hidden.

After this incident, I did not and the extension of the sea shouting, and even still, and he slept in the same bed, makes no reference to this matter. Could see that my normal to extremely abnormal extension of the sea look so scared, he repeatedly asked me about
Talk, or go on a trip with me, but I refused to work was busy. I understand that I must first identify the crux of the matter, then we may talk about reconciliation between the before.

At that time, the end of 2004, almost at the same time that happened, I was promoted to the leadership of company departments, working more and more busy, responsible for the promotion of several new projects, too busy to attend to cranky day. Later, I self-mockery: for women, the grief is really why? Forced to work ah!

Long period of time, I could not find the right starting point to work repairing the cracks in the sea itself and the extension, I'm afraid that over time, so we never stalled. Fortunately, a conversation inadvertently helped me open mind.

Once, I was with a subordinate in a family plot in the promotion of new insurance coverage. A seemingly very wealthy woman suddenly strolled over, looked at half a sigh, said: "Well, if the insurance will give the last like a marriage!" I heard this I looked up, up against two black eye scare to me, to see that this woman and I suffered the same fate - the feelings of a problem.
I tried to ask her: "to marriage is not insurance, but you can buy the insurance for him and let him know you are very concerned about him, his deeper feelings for you, this is not equivalent to marriage, you bought the insurance!"

Look at all the woman out of the tears: "I am too good for him, so he was insatiable. When he has nothing, I am the wind to rain to go, to help him with his own career, but he said, and I He better, he will feel that we owe me. Now, he even mingled with a working girl to go with. You say, what this world that can be insured? "

I suddenly of a heart acid, which is a woman's life? Look into the lives of all marriages, the result was always passionate to be ruthless abandon. We have been thinking to give marriage insurance, but never thought to give their own well-being of the insurance policy. Perhaps the starting point is the same, but the result will be different!

Day I came home and made a long talk extension of the sea. I said I was too tight in the past on his pipe, and perhaps deprived of his happiness, from now on, I will not be too much interference, just ask him in the pursuit of happiness, but also incidentally think about our home. My last words very sincerely: "I just want to ask you to put our marriage on the second."
On the extension of the sea so not it the same for myself. I should also put into the second marriage, to take account of their own!

That thought in mind, I like for a person like. I am even more into his work, in my insistence, I began with the extension of the sea is also home mortgage; past him out socializing, and more come back later, I was waiting for him, and now he has
The form good habits, more than 11 o'clock at night to go home, go room to sleep consciously. . . . . . In addition, I started graduate school, to participate in fitness classes, and my friends went out to play, I will tell him my whereabouts, points to go home, but I can not because there is no accompanying him feel guilty.

I was surprised that the extension of the sea will soon see what I mean, could see that I am in the liberation of their own, but also liberated him, the liberation of our marriage. I care about his past, asking him, now is an active interaction. During the day, we are busy with things at home, and we are busy during the day and then talk about what or where to go think about the weekend
Rest. . . . . . They even have lots to talk about it among.

January 17 is the extension of the birthday of the sea, feel the atmosphere of a new family of 9-year-old son suddenly said: "Dad, how do you like and mother in love again?" Extension of the sea breaks into laughter, in the blow out birthday candle that moment, he suddenly said in my ear: "Wife, Thank you!" my eyes suddenly a hot, well-being seems to start coming out from the bottom of my heart.

Summer season, which dressed actress most welcome, of course, sling installed. Xiang Jian Yu exposed back, just two rope and allows the actress in a cool, beautiful, sexy, find the best balance between. Although the tape, but also the thickness of the points, people tend to think that was the most tape sexy fine, broadband son also has its own characteristics. How sexy are two tape any different?

This woman from the original release NetEase, reproduced, please indicate the source!
Sexy charming small tape:

Zhang Ziyi
Although simple in design but plain dress deep V sexy showing off the collar will no doubt do not need too long shoulder strap, as long as the connection is just right for a short period of general sub-site control in the front part of the most sexy, subtle and enjoy the beauty show.

Liu Yifei

Black dress skirt eminently Liu Yifei body black design will enhance the maturity of a lot of sense. Slim strap with contrast skirt, full and vibrant throughout the dress.

Jiang Qinqin

This extremely sexy body skirt, whether chest or He Yebian formed skirt folds are very perfect, hanging in the back of the neck strap is the finishing touch to play the role.

Chen Hao
This body white red flower dress rather ethnic style, low-cut design of the word wrap breast cleavage sexy skirt will be showing off, no doubt, when the strap as if no less important, but the ride felt in the arm Querang sexy index rose rapidly.

Zhang Jing early

Like her, not just because she goes on pretty worldly air about her face, her more elegant temperament. Chiffon shirt will be worn so sexy really hard, thin straps, bare back to the gentleness of a woman show up without reservations.

Liu Tao

Dress simple fashion, blue and green mosaic is consistent with the flavor of summer. Sexy low cut deep feminine design will be revealed.
Wide tape sexy leisure:

Qin Lan

The most simple white, casual style, a unique shoulder strap design and skirt combination is perfect, the sexy, slightly showing a little more feminine in style.

Zhou Xun
Always take the simple route, this charming sexy red dress, with shoulder and arm to bring modified lines, two-piece dressing is to increase the sense of relaxation.

Hong Tao
Bright satin texture of the dress skirt is very eye-catching, without excessive modification of the width of the straps just right played a decorative effect.

Li Bingbing
Simple Purple Dress generous, smooth lines and simple design will set off her beauty very pure.
Wide shoulder strap and not cover up the beautiful collarbone, but it is more prominent.

Innocent girls nothing wrong equipment, but also very simple, such as the processing of bottled purified water, for example, when speaking, all the "I" words are replaced by "others", "Well people do not really understand," and so on. The point is, made men like innocent girls, girls sometimes too active big man will make a serious tension and even alert.

However, I want to say is, men who may never have vigilance rather than to produce it naturally, "atypical innocent" is determined for a long time, "pure", not the action of the storm ... ... it's "SARS innocent" very likely "not love" or "not love" and "not love."

Have a clean boys told me that he and girlfriend living together four years, and have no real physical relationship, his girlfriend is innocent, always at a critical time, "ordered a halt to" very rational, calm, he could only stick to the pain with, often because of his desire to "the brink of collapse ... ... he is banking on the recognition of their Shoushenruyu I can act, but I poured cold water," you should note that she is not really love you? "

In what say? He took out his cell phone can not wait, let me see his girlfriend photo, very beautiful, really smile, take it lightly, a little less than perceived sense of superiority, in that a simple smile, I do not see the sweet and charming. If it is pure, it should be. I asked, "Did you catch her? Very very hard." He smiled, nodded, sure my guess: "not easy, so basically I listen to her."

The problem here is the girls enjoyed the most was the pursuit, if it is persistent, it is more a sense of achievement, of course, the premise is that boys have at least a good impression, and that he is safe, not too aggressive and damage nature, can grasp is maintained in front of the honest ... ... the boys clearly have his moderate readability, but his "sex means" not very full of, not the kind of aggressive masculine. Such boys, girls like to get along with, but not necessarily eager to fall in love with it, at least the beginning not the case.

So, the niche of the reason why you can live with him, his girlfriend 4 years, and leisurely categorically remain "pure" style, not for his sexual flame lit, or even reveal style, it must not really love the gate or completely open, still in love or in front of the edge, so she have enough "courage of your convictions" and a pure heart, seemingly behind the hesitation is a pure desires, and even less enthusiasm, excitement, not impulsive, there is only faint of being surrounded by the joy of being taken care of moving, was looking forward to a romantic ... ... and even can be said that the heroine did not realize he was not in love, in love in their own.

Because if a girl loves him, and should be burned, can not help it is very easy to "accident's"! One is the desire and the other body and soul, of course, in view of the family outside the constraints of social factors, self-control lust, will struggle, but also can be reserved to make, but "cannot" can not persist for long time , not to mention the case in his skin, was able to live in peace four years, too incredible.
Installed to cover up the innocent because the style, if not style, of course was very innocent. A love of women, their style and enchanting natural distribution is conceal the.

In fact, we often have a experience in the face of its own, or do not love is not love when the opposite sex, will be particularly calm and comfortable self-confidence, if you like for one, love, will be sweating palms, rapid heartbeat, it will incoherent, and even can not stand each other wanted favors from a flip!

I just this boy, first smile, do not believe, then some doubts, and finally a little lonely and discouraged. Because, he began to also realize that some among them "wrong" because his girlfriend did not take the initiative from "seduce mean" ... ... In other words, her "boyfriend" there is no "sexual desire", a turbulence desire, then, this is not true love; apparently, she just around the so-called boyfriend as a warm "family" friendly students, best friends, or even see him as the opposite sex; of course, this all just unconscious, she may not have clearly had serious reflection and doubt: this is not love.

Old saying: a woman because of love for nature and love of man. A grain of truth. We still have further to say: there will be love sex, asexual usually no love. Here, "nature", not "do", but to "think", but actually the girls that absolutely pure with no ripples, and there is no restraint of the pain and annoyance. On the contrary, with the lovers living together, you can drop of water without sticking, such as revolutionary comrades, pure to the overdone!

Men and women are the same, not a love, true love's heart, there would be no passion waves or flames of agitation and suffering. If you're too easily can "abstinence," "abstinence," absolutely "pure" in the end, you have a need to reflect on your feelings, is it time to love the level of attainment? Some love is not passive, just come to enjoy each other's love, or even just to refuse to love each other somehow compromise "compromise + blackmail"?

As long as love is healthy, will be "cranky" in! There with lust, body and soul of the struggle struggle is the mortal heart is difficult to achieve, such as still water, "no idea", no problem at all. Innocent beautiful, valuable, but be careful it may be a poor innocent but behind the reluctance of "love."

"Three rural" issue has been the focus of the Financial Times, for all involved, "Agriculture" of monetary policy and services, I have made an in-depth reports reports have also aroused a good response. The present situation, how innovative financial and service "three rural", I have the following few points.

First, to meet the requirements of building a new socialist countryside as the goal to improve the rural financial institutions to focus on aspects of rural financial organization system of innovation. An important aspect of financial innovation, financial system is sound and innovation. Overall, China's banking system is basically the initial set up planned economic model designed for large enterprises and large units are set and match, and the lack of medium and small financial institutions, especially small financial institutions. We have effective supervision and risk control of the premise, to relax for the agriculture, rural areas and farmers, small service access threshold for financial institutions to the "three rural" areas of hundreds of thousands of small businesses and homes vulnerable economies of the main phase adaptation.

Second, to adapt to the modern market-oriented economy to a sound financial environment as the main content, vigorously push forward the rural credit system of innovation. Finance is the core of modern economy, without a sound rural financial ecological environment, "farmer loans, bank loans difficult" situation would not improve the financial role in the agricultural economy, it is difficult to fully play. Rural economy has its own characteristics, in the rural credit system construction, to finance construction of ecological environment, you need to closely integrate the current rural economic and social characteristics, to work creatively.

Third, to support the development of modern agriculture-oriented, strong in financial product innovation. At present, countries are constantly increasing financial support for agriculture, agriculture that tradition is changing the face of weak industries, the financial sector in agriculture is rapidly expanding space, this aspect, we can make a lot of innovation. As long as the government, enterprises, financial sector and farmers to work together, we can break the financial product innovation a new world.

Fourth, insist on support for rural finance policy and commercial operation of the principle of risk spreading mechanism innovation and rural finance, the financial support of "Agriculture" to achieve sustainable development. The state should guide the flow of capital, "Agriculture", we must establish a set of innovative risk diversification, sharing mechanisms, and compensation mechanisms, it is necessary to establish and improve mortgage and guarantee system in rural areas. You can also increase, as some areas of concern to financial investment, try to spread in various government departments of Agriculture funds to integrate and guide government and business conditions in the township farmers funded the establishment of a unified agricultural credit risk compensation fund, distributed input their credit risk.