Each couple in the sex life has its own characteristics, only two sides to understand the structure and function of reproductive organs of men and women, based on attention to ways of responding with each other and special wishes to achieve a happy and harmonious sexual life.

Of life is an important part of married life. Harmonious sexual life is a natural physiological needs of men and women, is the common wish of both husband and wife, the obligations of both sides closely and also have the right to jointly met. In the process of sexual life, sexual excitement from the excited to the emotional communication, from both body and mind into the common reach orgasm, have an important psychological factor here. As long as one party a lack of understanding of sexual knowledge, or one party’s negative attitude, the two sides will not have the emotional harmony. Especially for women, sex plays a greater role in psychological impact, the man must understand the characteristics of married life can be better in a proactive role.

Many women fear the other despise myself really hard to suppress the reactions and emotions, to show self-respect and high and mighty. Some of the concept of strong conservative women, that sex is had to fulfill their obligations, a negative and passive attitude. This talented women shy, reserved, timid and negative psychology is to stimulate and accelerate the sexual excitement of resistance. They unconsciously expect from these mental shackles is unrealistic, especially minority women, sex before marriage is weak, the more difficult to get out of this predicament. The old idea that women’s sexual life should be completely passive, and modern science to reverse this outdated concept. Facts have proved that women learn to take a more active sex life, access to sexual pleasure for their own satisfaction and satisfaction of both sides are very necessary.

Male sexual response characteristics determine the sex of their strong, ready to be inspired and excited about the rapid progress to complete the degree. Females only in the pre-ovulation occur before or after sexual climax stronger, even so, they are excited and the excitement and speed up the slow and subtle than men. Before and after puberty, male sexuality to the center to the surrounding genital generalization, the generalization of women from the focus to the genital area gradually. Middle age, men began to generalization, but women of reproductive tired to concentrate. Therefore, men focus on sexual intercourse, sexual satisfaction for women the source of a wide range. Only men can bring pleasure ejaculation, women have childbirth, breastfeeding, etc. can bring pleasure.

Man both in the community or the family often bears the main responsibility, a strong sense of professionalism and sense of responsibility to their mental or physical, and a great night, many have been exhausted. Wife would be wise to choose an appropriate time to take the initiative to lead happy sex life by her husband to relax completely continuous tense nerves and muscles, excluding the affairs of numerous troubles, a trip to the happy family and marriage and happiness. After returning his wife should be the man sitting quiet haven, rather than create a new source of tension.

Psychological characteristics of men and women are not the same, men will be their strength and pride to our mutual satisfaction, the women affirmed their sexual attractiveness to meet. Therefore, sexual dysfunction in men and women have different performance. Male sexual behavior can be completed in the most vulnerable to failure, to impotence, premature ejaculation, mainly. Whether women in the sexual satisfaction of easy problems to sexual desire is low, mainly free orgasm. If the sexual life of lack of common requirements, not mutual understanding and respect for each other’s feelings will be hurt, or even to lose interest in each other, serious, can cause sexual dysfunction, and lead to marriage. Some young men by the remnants of feudal thinking poison the husband, the wife put as their accessories. Requirements regardless of whether the woman, or even not spare each other’s physical health, physical discomfort or emotional poor wife was still forced intercourse, if not from the furious, even resorts to violence. This violent behavior is bound to create tensions woman, disgust and fear, that this is an insult to his personality. Over time, women will develop low sexual desire, and even some women from the reserved attitude of the development to counter the psychological, cold, and deliberately refused the man’s demands, and even play with each other’s feelings. This in turn would hurt the man’s self-esteem, sexual life, and then fed by the disappointing, with anxiety, anger and illness may develop impotence and other sexual dysfunction. All these are sowing the seeds, will eventually lead to the collapse of marital relations, family breakdown.

Therefore, in order to achieve satisfactory coordination of the sex life should note the following: The two sides have sexual desires and impulses, not reluctantly. Both sides have a high concentration of attention, not to deal with distractions. The two sides of excitement, the mood of euphoric infection with each other, and each other excited. Including facial expressions, gestures, language and intonation. Love of people like to understand each other and make each other happy, and provide you what you need to give all. Love, time, need to treat each other sincerely, the rapid exchange of emotional need. Only by establishing the basis of understanding and respect, coupled with the full understanding of knowledge, a happy married life can be harmonious.

It is noteworthy that men and women on the sex life with the demands and response characteristics of the age. Understand these characteristics, understanding each other, a harmonious sex life is a factor. The following look from the age gap between the sexes.

1,20-30 years: males in the peak period of sexual excitement, fast, sexy, strong, easy to re-climax after the excitement. Females are shy, cautious state of mind, emotional let it go. Male sexual desire is stronger than women.

2,31-40 years: male sexual function began to decline, but the increasing capability of controlling, and can better meet the requirements of women. Women began to break through psychological barriers, to better understand their own bodies and know how to get to meet in order to achieve orgasm.

3,41-50 years: reduce the male libido, energy limited, slow arousal, need more stimulation to reach the peak. However, more experienced, more thoughtful, more gentle way to meet the woman’s sexual demands. Increased female sexual desire, sexual needs are peaking. Psychological sense of oppression and barriers swept away, no false modesty. After menopause, vaginal dryness, need to use lubricant. This decade is the incompatibility between sexual life stage. After middle age, female sexuality may be more than men. Less husband old wife in the West up to 1/8-1/5.
4,51-60 years: they tend to coordinate both requirements. Women demand has started to reduce.

5,61-70 years: both are degraded and sexual function, but some affectionate couples sex life still continued. A survey showed that more than 60% of the partners insist on a regular sexual intercourse. Older women still have sex, too much restraint with adverse health. Let it maintain a sex life, make them feel more comfortable in their later years.
6,71 years old: There are reports that one-tenth of the couple still live regular sex life.