Archive for March, 2010
The right to use the right of the hymen male female chastity under
All the history of China to the center of power, which is a hub of Chinese literature. This is in fact a number of potential crisis in China Understanding today, Paradox entangled hub. The so-called monarch and his subjects and his son, the so-called husband and wife, the so-called "husband her son", although these Tsunatsune Confucianism of Confucius and Mencius, "fundamentalist" in there, but generally from the Han dynasty ideology, interpreted as a specific maintenance imperial authoritarian political culture . Patriarchal Ye Hao, the husband Ye Hao, male Ye Hao, and phenomena from microscopic point of view is there, and even pretty serious, but from a macro point of view, from the essence, are actually attached to, the service is restricted by the imperial power, political power. If we do not see it that way, it is difficult to penetrate the fog of history and reality. For example, a male and a female concubine farmers compared to the status of who is better? Empress Wu Wenchen generals met men do not have to bow? When the Qing Dynasty which "man real man" and dare to offend the mercy of Lafayette? Moreover paternity, the son became a high-ranking officials, Dangdie of power and prestige are not together anymore. "Chunghsiao not attained" when all filial sacrifice.
Further, the rapid economic development in today's society though, it seriously lags behind the concept of change. How to deal with traditional culture in the debate, there is always a kind of traditional culture, "a holistic view of" thinking errors. Overall there is an overall advantage of an analysis of advantages, must not replace the analysis of the overall thinking of the advantages of the advantages of thinking. The analysis must be analyzed, no analysis of his "holistic thinking" in a sense is the abolition of thinking. Today, there are still of chastity, chastity has a huge cultural psychological basis, which is obviously related to traditional Chinese culture, which is by no means essential. Sadly, some people have also been whitewashing, he just took the arch when the advanced culture.
There are three essential chastity of women: first, to be a virgin when married; the other, usually men and women to strictly prevent the so-called men and women give and accept not pro; The third is to single-mindedness, but also her husband died After the "single-mindedness." Developed to chastity chastity, we must "to die." In fact, the living are living death.
Among them, the "virgin" problem is the foundation. That is, women's chastity, virginity, to the "chastity" basis. If the whole concept of chastity and the chastity of a moral system asked why, the answer is a woman belonging to a man. The so-called chastity, is not a "human rights" concept, but a "property" concept. Notice how the slaves, slaves, servants, etc., "slave" the word has a feminine character. "Talent" for the use of the term "subordinate" for "are", the "wenches" for the humble lower case. Structural features of Chinese characters provide us with a from the "genesis" meaning perspective study certain things, there is a reference value.
When this concept established, and reinforced by the authoritarian time could have been one of the female genital organs "hymen" is no longer a woman, in the ideas and mentality, in the dominant and dominated the consciousness of human behavior, the hymen have been transferring to the male, has been occupied by men, and monopolization. With "See Red" to examine the relationship between a woman subordinate to men, to test a man on the "substance" and get possession to determine this "thing" is the "new" or "old", to distinguish between the "thing" is " beginning to "or" the beginning of divination. " If the eunuch is to castrate the male genital harm the completion of domestication under the dehumanization of women "see red" test is drawn through the genital organs, the implementation of the concept of monopoly to complete dehumanization, they are equally cruel. Therefore, women are the "hymen" to return to the women, before we talk about the return of women to human nature.
A concept of power by autocratic ideology, culture, mentality and then also, more importantly, become dominant and the dominated people's real attitudes and behaviors of the rules. Its subtle level, from women's "identity" of view, this is very sad that women have themselves become such a concept of "identity", or even a "conscious" of the perpetrators and defenders.
"See Red" "Red" is called "meta Red", "new red" and "Hi Red", much praise and esteem, have high status. Late Qing Dynasty had a popular song, "Dawn Melody", sang the "new out before dawn, the new bridal chamber," it is precisely the female singing voice:
Three-shift in the moon to shine on, it is like crazy wind off tender narrow waist, regardless of slaves Lang romantic young love, pain ignominy by him upside down.
Came up with a little red, dripping in white silk standard, not shy to get lights, photo.
Hi groom see red, hearts were rejoicing that a virgin slave, laughing at the brow.
Not only the groom to experience red, sometimes outside of the man who should be parents and guests, "Seeing is believing" to disseminate and view this piece of bloodstained "white silk standard", which is strong evidence of the bride chastity, everyone Jiaokou praise, because there is no groom Tan Dao "fake" and elated bride because he is a "qualified product" and proud of barely disguised pleasure, is a truly "enjoys popular support."
Literary works, even describing the works of romantic love, but also reflects a high degree of "identity." Such as Wang Shih-fu Yuan, "The West Chamber", the Chang was born in the first night after he saw Fallen flowers sang "Spring Luoyuan Ying Bai, Hong points early tender red color see." The value has increased by a "qualifying examination" of Ying-ying, said: "concubine the daughter of the truck and once to the euphemistically to pay in a single step, not to give up his growing, so there are bald sigh concubine." A little red, decided her worth, status, fate, future, if not "a Hongxingchuqiang to", then "Spring garden all shut," the.
This, with the manor in medieval Europe's "first night rights" have the same purpose. Feudal lords (usually aristocratic) within the territory of all serfs wedding, the bride must be delivered to the first lord "use." Serf's wife seems to be to lose "virginity" has. But with China's "See Red" have in common is: women are still a man's tool, how else will happen, "the right to use" the move? Only the right to use the tools on the distribution by grade, according to the serfs of the possession of lords enjoy priority use of his wife. How "precious" the hymen, however humble woman.
Women kill their own ideas on the chain to be "active cooperation", which is even more tragic, and this bias has not disappeared. To improve the status of women, believed to rely on chastity chastity, in order to get people's respect, they rely more strictly follow these kill, reduce, harm their dignity creed, this is a typical "harm than good."
The second female chastity symbol is not pro-women and men giving and receiving, that is, men and women without any body parts, skin contact, even the clothes are untouchable. What is more, so that men look at can be considered a "Disloyalty." "Paragons Biography", a paragons of chastity, for men pull on her arm, her anger, however, because this arm has been soiled men, infidelity, and in order to maintain chastity, she cut off his arm.

Even the most value in the face of women in chastity before also worthless. Tang Fang Xuanling name with young, there was a serious illness to death, his wife, Romer said: "You're young, not widowed." Romer was crying to his bed, dig out your own eye, expression myself not to remarry. And today's female beauty, cosmetic On the contrary, appears many times in history voluntary "ugly Yung," "disfigured," the woman, of course, to chastity. - "Life is precious, Huarong price higher; to chastity therefore, both methods throw."
Lu Xun wrote "In my view of chastity", and "eating" the moral French were thoroughly expose and criticize. He said: "I based the above facts and reasons to conclude that strong this section is: very difficult, very hard, do not want to seriously, but adversely from him no good society and nation, in the future life means nothing to act now loss of life and value of existence. "These words have in the past half a century, and today is still enlightening to illustrate people's attitudes and mentality, and should have been no more thorough and substantive change.
Female chastity of the most important, but also a single-mindedness of this article. Women's chastity is necessary to establish the small. Always wanted a closed, two do not step, man at home, women will learn the truth and skills. When married, to have their parents are arranged, you marry a chicken with the chicken, marry a dog with the dog, their right to decide, after marrying in the past, to the paternity-laws, to obey her husband, the husband clinging section, single-mindedness, The so-called "loyalists not having two masters, paragons do not marry two husbands." One of the top 16 cool ZHANG Tian-Xi Wang, Yan was a concubine, and He has appeared. Zhang sick day in bed, conscious life is not long, on the second concubine said: "How you will report me? I die, how can the wife and then for others?" Two concubines replied: "If you do not shied from death, martyrdom dead concubine request for sweeps the ground, his oath without Chi. "Zhang Tianxi critical condition, both the second concubine committing suicide. However, ZHANG Tian-Xi's disease are better.
Southern beam, there is one called the Na Du Yi Mountain, a beautiful young concubine. One day the woman received a letter from his father, is reading DU back, eyes shame to the family told Du, swallow the letter. Du suspected a love letter, an order gain the trust of Caesarean section, the letter out, the concubine is still breath left. Du read the letter, that concubinage was odd, but the concubine had never ordered off air.
Sui has a surname Cui women, 13 years old to marry a Zhengxing home, a husband died, Cui twenty, his father could not bear to see her widowed young, advised her to remarry, Cui for the confession will not remarry in determined, cut the hair, cutting his ears, which makes people look like a human, ghost not a ghost, so a man's admiration and his desire to destroy together with Huarong evaporated.
By the Song dynasty, the style of big advocate Zhenlie to absurd proportions. Asked Sung Neo-Confucian Cheng Hao, if a woman lost her husband, if not remarry can not live, you have to starve to death, how to do? Cheng Hao replied: "starve to death a small matter, Disloyalty something big." Chinese women in such publicity, the often tragic sacrifices made to protect chastity.
If the chastity and through fire and water, destroying hosting the Games, can cause temporary "sensation," or even "Best Solar Puppetry", that the pain of widowhood, there is no personal experience of people is difficult to imagine. Qing 1 "high widows," widowed in the age of 17, keep to the 96-year-old died, 79 years, more than 28,800 nights of taste, imagination can hardly be any extraordinary experience.
A widow, her husband died when her son was still wearing diapers being. Son grew up in a champion, wedding night, the mother called over to his son, gave him a burden. Son opened it, which is both smooth and bright coin, above the words have been worn. Mother told him the story of coins: When your father died, I was very young, I put up with hardships brought you up adults, number of hard to sleep through the night ah! Every night I dreams, only tired to make me fall asleep. So I have the bed up every night, these coins on the floor, in the midst of exploring the dark lying on the floor until you find a coin for each date, then I am often too tired to exhaustion, sank back in bed. Now you married a bride, I hope you do not forget these.
So far, people's attitudes and mentality, and should have been no more thorough and substantive change, that criticism of virginity, chastity, Zhenlie moral, French, as well as practical significance. Not only dominated the consciousness of human behavior, and in many theory, propaganda, ideas, but also in varying degrees, to chastity, based on the concept of chastity. It was suggested that China should establish a "chastity law", "Chastity Act," was made for young people to strengthen virginity, chastity education, many teachers, parents, experts and even that "rely on abstinence education to enhance self-protection awareness of young women," while more people critical of some social phenomena, in fact, is also in accordance with, and use these. The so-called "chastity," a new interpretation of the so-called retained reasonable elements, the so-called "Times" to carry out reform and development, and so, in fact, does not understand these so-called "traditional culture" is not the composition of Chinese tradition parts and non-civilization, anti-values, anti-humanity, anti-intellectual legacy of totalitarian dictatorship.
A "moral", but some people only require one failure to another part, such requests without requiring a woman a man, among people openly engage in "double standards", it is immoral; a "moral" violation of human nature, sacrifice their own well-being, to endure great suffering on the people have no real benefit, it is immoral; a "moral" persons deprived of their "sexual rights", deprived of one's own genitals the right of self-domination, to force a person dependent, obedient people, and even transferring their legal rights in order to avoid condemnation of punishment, it is immoral. To pay a woman to love their bodies no matter what happens later, when a "moral," she pronounced depreciation, not clean, low time, this "moral" is immoral.
Thus, the so-called chastity, chastity as the standard to measure whether women self-respect, self-love, self-esteem, it is the induction of women from the light, from cheap, give up on itself. Just as a modern citizen, there are many confused, unable to make full use of their democratic rights, can not fully safeguard the legitimate rights and interests, can not fully express the free will so as many women compromise, tolerance and helpless. However, the value orientation is to be clarified first. Holding a feather to vent their spleen, holding of decay, when the advanced culture, and took the chain when the spiritual shackles, took perverse when the times, it is not only women but also of man's national tragedy.
Scientists receive the aliens call themselves at risk

Mysterious alien radio signal is sent it?
According to the French press reported that the former Soviet Union and the United States, scientists are studying a mysterious from outer space radio signals. According to analysis, the signal is 5 million years ago, a distress call from a planet call.
A reluctance to disclose the identity of the French press, the American astronomer, said: "This is an amazing breakthrough, our computer has been successful in the translation of the most important part of radio signals out to the effect that: Please direct us down 4 cosmic explosion. We are in great danger. Our position in the 12 Milky Way. "
The singular message from the two experts to convert adult type readable text, but they have been kept secret on the matter. The astronomers said: "The very simple mathematical calculation, we estimate that this is an ancient spaceship, or a planet, he seems to be looking for some guidelines to help them out of the woods. This is indeed shock. After work, we have tentatively calculated that at least 50,000 years ago, the message sent may also be longer. "
Zhao Wei, Zhang Ziyi and other 15 big soul star remover comparison before and after the shock
Recently, a media star Zhang Ziyi and Vicki Zhao open the make-up before and after photos, a South Korean media, a hot topic. Korean media said that the contrast is amazing. Thoughts are pleasant for shedding Korean media attention this is normal, however, their country is full of man-made beauty, the women usually go out to Japan and South Korea are painted with several layers, of the make-up on a lot of time, some of them real look, even the most intimate of her husband and her boyfriend did not know, is not only a female star, actor patterns that Korea, too scary makeup everywhere, so the Koreans to the Chinese star was not too curious about the normal way. In general, relatively speaking Chinese women to be more true than in Japan and South Korea more, but the third of seven dress looks, this temperament have to gloss over or set off by the dress to come out. Especially in the entertainment business to the natural appearance of a living actress in their makeup on in more bother to have wanted to show best side to everyone, but overlooked one important, but also show their true colors when careless. In fact, Zhang Ziyi and Vicki Zhao is not only a lot of stars before and after the big gap between Remover scary. Inventory of loose thinkers here who look more representative of the big names. (Text / shedding thinker Source: thinker blog shedding)
Shang Wenjie
This woman is simply amazing debut before and after the changes can be described with shaking Qigui Shen. Now Shang Wenjie is taking the lead line, many people think that her dress is tenrai, and LadyGara you win a fight. She thinks that she's "ridiculous" dress up because of the domestic with the international standards of aesthetic yet.
Zhao Wei
Loose powder thinkers think Swallow has changed old. Lingling's like water over a decade ago and passed away forever, so we do not always get the good image of the past in mind, and now more than. Instead, she dresses for red carpet do not know how is always less inflow, giving old-fashioned sense, is often listed as the worst dressed actress. Low profile it is not that a low-key method bar.
Jane Zhang
Jane Zhang debut after the appearance of the image of the design division for her clothing, before and after the change is not really big on makeup.
Zhang Ziyi
Zhang Ziyi's make-up is successful, the face of the spots were covered. Wrinkles do not see the. Loose powder thinkers have always felt that the international success of small chapter in the Chinese actress Li is the highest. Unfortunately, people change her image, scolded her for she is much more than that. Loose thinkers from Bowen's message can be seen on some very nasty words and even, perhaps spurred her to find a foreigner in some people's nerves? 
Zhou Xun
Zhou Xun's skin when there are so poor. But the loose thinkers look 35 years old, she was so young
Athena Chu
Athena Chu to hate the paparazzi shoot this piece, and Su Yan not only looks like her Aunt, behavior is also quite elegant
Jolin Tsai
Jolin said that plastic surgery was. Is simply ugly duckling white swan.
Hebe
Cleansing before and after the change is too much point, it seems that most girls are not disappointed with their appearance, take care have the potential to become the United States, there are no ugly women only lazy thinker remark shedding think is really not fake .
Big S
Clothes horse in the saddle, magazines and makeup of the large S she is a great gap.
Angela Chang
Angela Chang scared a lot of people that look endless. People can not imagine this is pretty as a doll-like Angela Chang, and she actually took a hit, before she had with her mother because of discord and separation, has been following the family since reconciled, the company pressed into their cash cow, and become rebellious . Temperament changes to the suspension of work she not only has to live night-clubbing, the result of fat 7 kg violence, she sunken eye, black eye deep into a pun on "panda eyes", showing an old, emaciated to the point. ?
Monica Chan
Well, the difference is amazing, it seems according to the magazine's beauty was too deceptive. Think of those who participated in shedding thinker fast woman general appearance of the girls on the fashion magazines do not is a star-studded after
Fan Bingbing
Coquettish Fan Bingbing in costumes always look better than others under the United States, but after the big black bags under the eyes Remover It is very disappointing,
Carina Lau
No cosmetic unraveling of Carina Lau old weighed
Vivid
The efficacy of cosmetics is also reflected in her powerful well
Karen Mok
Loose powder thinkers do not think she has the United States, perhaps even a little ugly, but she is so red, perhaps a pair of her long legs to her luster. However, based on the makeup, marked soft, shine out of photos all at once she raised the
Depends on the incidence of colds eat Sha
First Affiliated Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine ENT appointed as chief physician that can prevent and relieve cold symptoms, the food a lot, but should be based on the incidence of the different cold, choose the appropriate therapeutic approach.
Early: Try the onion soup sauce
Many people like to drink in the cold after cold water, brown sugar, ginger, its director said, in fact, has the effect of relieving rheumatism and cold onion soup sauce better.
Approach is simple, to 500 ml of water heated, add 10 grams of boiled lobster sauce, then add the scallion stalk Serve. Onions to go with the channeling of the role of spices, fermented there sweating relieving effect, a lot of sweating after drinking the soup, will greatly speed up the detoxification process.
It should be noted that there are some people because of fatigue, and less drinking water causes cold, which is Fengreganmao. At this time of cold food should be used and will boil water, sugar and pear take on it.
Exacerbation: white radish soup to help
Cold increased, the patient will feel sore throat, nasal congestion, runny nose and other symptoms increase, some even high fever, headache and other symptoms unbearable, then the body is working with the virus "as a struggle", it is easy to generate heat. And white radish "to evil heat" effect is obvious, then drink some white radish soup is the most workable.
Wash the white radish, cut into thin slices about 5 mm, adding boiling water Aozhi thick to drink. Catholic bishop reminded, when cold add therapeutic play a supporting role only, need timely medical treatment.
Recovered on: drink a bowl of mountain Porridge
Some people of weak constitution, after recovery in the cold, there will still be weak, mental fatigue, poor appetite, such as performance, this time should be chosen with the level of some complement about the role of food fortification. Yam, "is not dry not greasy," can be said to level up the best choice in a vulnerable person might have recovered from regular consumption of cold mountain Porridge.
60 grams of selected yam, rice 100 grams. The yam peeled and cut into small pieces and put together with regular rice cooked in water, adding an appropriate amount of sugar you can eat, drink every day a small bowl on it.
"Beer belly" is not caused by beer
Many middle-aged men have risen up beer belly, beer seems to make fat consensus, but this is the lack of scientific basis. Recently, researchers in Britain and the Czech Republic nearly 2,000 Czechs on the drinking habits and obesity status of a random sample, found that beer belly and how much beer does not matter much. In fact, only 150 calories a glass of beer calories, fat and only 0.3 grams. German Federal Medical Association, the latest nutritional research shows that beer belly and the male genes related to fat from the hips like a female, like most men, the fat stored in the abdomen.
Of course, every man different genes and trigger the possibility of different beer belly, for middle-aged people, the quality of sleep is the main cause. As we age, men also will reduce deep sleep stages, as the poor quality of sleep, hormone secretion will be reduced, the lack of hormones cause the body to increase fat tissue, and gathered in the abdomen, and older also increased.
In addition, many middle-aged man sitting in office a long time, lack of exercise, likely to cause abdominal fat accumulation. In-pressure situations, many people eating too much, leading to indigestion, which could easily lead to overweight. To eliminate beer belly, need to work together in many ways, for example, usually 7 minutes to eat full meals a day, at least 30 minutes, a warm bath before bedtime to improve sleep status.