Guidance: All women are waiting for the other half of life, look forward to living together with his beautiful picture: Enjoy a French meal, enjoy a romantic DVD, spend a good weekend night ... ... but in real life, there is Many people can only enjoy the noodles alone, one person watching sad films, and how planning ahead brains meet her Mr Right.

Do you often face the trouble: can not find the real thing, sleep disorders or lack of orgasm ... ... But when you talk to friends when attempting to seek relief, the answer he got is always, "Do not earth now . " In the end there is no one can tell us how to really get rid of these concerns?

32-year-old product manager Lai Min complained: "I and a colleague with the department a document because so much noise because of very stiff, her several days and I do not say a word, let me walk into the office to find a kinds of oppressive atmosphere. "But in fact, even though the whole weekend she thought about this issue, I thought a lot of ways, repeatedly refined to say, to Monday morning to see that colleague, she was smiling at her courage or asked her over a cup of tea, but rushed to the point, take the initiative to bring the share of their loss and to file ... ... in such tense circumstances, the reconciliation of course, vanish into thin air.

Lai Min mistake is thinking too much. When people over-value and commitment on something, they often lose the most simple solution to problems. Do not mind lingering obsession can make people unable to maintain a good attitude, then storm in a teacup, or even a domino effect, failure came one after another people's emotions out of control, the situation also will worsen. In fact, she did not need to spend a whole weekend to think about the problem. "No longer cranky" is the kind of accurate and effective method, but in practice it is not easy, Who let the men think women are inherently much more than what?
Do not always think, "I blush easily,"

29-year-old Elise laments not choose a simple and save their career. She is a car manufacturing company, engineer, computer simulation of vehicle crash tests in the reaction, then the results reported to the relevant technical departments. The technology sector is the all-male, 99% of them are big men tendencies. "Every time I test these great men to report results, look them in the eyes that do not trust, I will start with feet start heating and then slowly heat up until the face has become like a ripe tomato ", Elise grumbled," If someone booed or cough, my face was even more severe on the red. The more I remind ourselves to be calm, be confident, but more and more on the hot face. "This When the medicine is called "Red Yan phobia", that is easy in public, especially the opposite sex in front of the boss or your favorite face and blush, but the more we try to control the situation is more worse. According to statistics, about 10% of adults plagued by long-term for such symptoms. Thus they often blame themselves, but always a means to escape all the invalid.

Recommendation: the extreme way to solve this problem is to accept the sympathectomy, open the chest, resection of part of the neural control of sweat secretion. But be careful, horrific surgical procedure, and will bring such as ptosis, bradycardia or other consequences. Psychologists believe that moderate behavior and cognitive therapy more feasible: "We can make use breathing exercises, combined with ideas for repeated treatment." Method is: first listing may encounter problems that you tongue-tied, if a satisfactory answer to the first a problem, then it will soon have to answer the second, the third question of courage, confidence, natural increase. If you still think it will blush, it quickly raised his chin deep breathing, this can promote blood indecent; also can focus on a particular ideology does not matter the details, such as the boss of clothing color. However, with the "Red Yan phobia" is the best strategy to combat or fight against. Try to accept it, and discover the positive side of it - perhaps it can promote blood circulation, thereby stimulating and active in your mind then? In short, do not let stubborn ideological cause such symptoms as another entanglement your nightmare, resulting in vicious cycle.
Do not always think, "destined for me"

All women are waiting for the other half lives, dreaming of life with a beautiful picture with him: enjoy the French cuisine, enjoy a romantic DVD, spend a good weekend night ... ... but in real life, many people can only enjoy the noodles alone, one person watching sad films, and how planning ahead brains meet her Mr Right ... ... so the idea may be good either. First of all, we tend to the conventional strategy known trade-off, thus limiting the scope of choice, and most likely missing some exceptions; Secondly, when you ask the more long time, the easier it is to maximize your desires and show craving. This woman has brought virtually to a man close to great pressure, so that they escaped across the fields.

Recommendation: take it lightly. Try some of the unpredictability of future appointments, and waited. Do not blindly enthusiastic, optimistic, and to allow their failure. Some women always met every single men are seen as the future father of the child. Was only a kiss, let her excited, began to imagine the future from two people sharing the apartment. Psychologists suggest that these "visionaries" have to set up their own short-term goals, such as: "and eat with him and let him know my taste", not "imagine him hold me when the throbbing feeling"; in Shopping must foot the bill because "I like the dress," not because "he likes the color." Perhaps the lack of such a date a little emotional, but allow as free as the life of men more easily.
Do not always think, "I reach orgasm"

According to psychologist survey, more than 30% of women never experience orgasm. In fact, in large part because many people regard and intimacy between partners expect too much, I hope each sex can be a climax, but the reality is often disappointing. In addition, many small details that have become impede orgasm causes, such as: do not worry about their body hair off the net, worried about the other side to see the fat on his body ... ... sex has become a rivalry. Always concerned about their appearance and how could people wholeheartedly into the performance? No wonder become elusive orgasm.

Recommendations: First, to re-experience the beauty of sex, sex is not a challenge on their own. Some sexuality experts even proposed a reverse method, that is, not to their own effort to restrain both sides to reach orgasm. Because people have an antagonistic mentality, the more control, but more prone to high tide. Second, distraction. This is not for you to think about sex Shihai tomorrow or today's stock market recipes, but to remind you not to blindly consider their own feelings, to observe each other's reactions and more. Third, sum up the experience of past successful climax, when necessary, can be reproduced scene. Note, however, precedent, or susceptible to fraud is suspected.

Related News: astronomical salary, said Guotai Junan staff took so much funny denied

Moderator (Dong Qian):
Welcome to "News 1 +1." As the saying goes, a gentleman to love, a proper way, our program today to talk about this on the respective financial and the Road.

We will focus primarily on the United States, Beijing today morning news came that the United States, Barack Obama announced that the recipient of the highest-paid corporate executives can not be more than 500 thousand U.S. dollars, that people want, in the U.S., with a high degree of market economy of the country, the elected president would be so concerned about how to intervene in such a salary of executives do? I do not know how Professor Wang You look at this issue.
Xi-Zn (guest observer):

President of the concerned executives of the annual salary, it is indeed such a high degree of freedom in the U.S. market-oriented country at first glance unusual. But if look at the current economic situation, we know that the financial crisis hit, and everyone felt frost, the government intervened to rescue the market, this time some people pay cut if one is even being laid off, while some executives are holding a huge salary, how can we hope to rescue the people on the government of such a large policy to political support, be psychological identity, and enhance the whole community together to meet such a financial crisis, a sense of responsibility and moral awareness what? So on reflection is deep sense.
Moderator:
Let's take a look at Obama released the "pay limit order."

500 000, this is Barack Obama to the Wall Street executives have limited the maximum annual salary. February 5, Barack Obama announced that executives salary recipient shall not more than five hundred thousand U.S. dollars, this decision will undoubtedly bring to the Wall Street executives who had a magic spell. This applies not only to United States Road, magic spell, Bank of America has received the U.S. government rescue of financial firms, including the future of all companies receiving government assistance, and business to give executives more than 500,000 if the salary of the stock awards, these stocks must also be pay off the loan company can cash in later.
Barack Obama (U.S. President)

We do not despise wealth, we are not jealous of any success, we certainly believe success should be rewarded, but it is easy to make people feel uneasy is that (some companies) poor performance of executives, they were (high ) reward. Especially at this time, these compensation from U.S. taxpayers, many of them very difficult life of their own.
Commentary:

Obama's remarks is valid, according to earlier U.S. media reports, the 2008 Wall Street financial institutions executives got bonuses as high as 184 billion dollars, equivalent to the financial industry in 2004 peak level. This was the Obama's harsh criticism of Obama was angered and even the "shameful" to describe the word.
Obama:

We all have a responsibility to make the economy move on, when I see an article, pointed out that the Wall Street bankers have been nearly 200 billion dollars, which they received dividends in 2004, this is extremely irresponsible, too shameful the. We need Wall Street to show restraint, self-control and some sense of responsibility.
Commentary:

Restraint, self-control, responsibility, this is Barack Obama demands of Wall Street executives, but really want to do that is obviously not so easy. Voice in Obama did not just drop a long time, the Associated Press on the disclosure, received 25 billion U.S. dollars of government aid payments Wells Fargo intends to allocate public funds according to years of tradition, luxury travel arrangements for staff to Las Vegas. Although the program was canceled, but still can not calm the anger of the people.

In fact, in addition to Wells Fargo Bank, Wall Street, while receiving government assistance, while they still do not know restraint and extravagance of the bank continued to abound. U.S. insurance industry leader American International Group AIG told the federal government 85 billion U.S. dollars in aid, the Front only be exposed to spend 440 thousand U.S. dollars, 70 senior executives serve SPA trip, the incident came to light after being scolded to the shame of AIG, said Similar trips will be canceled later.
U.S. Congress:
General deposit to survive.
Wagner (GM CEO):
Mr President, it depends on suppliers and market conditions to set.
Commentary:

Riding in luxury private jet to Washington for help GM CEO Wagoner was the media satire as "the plane down from the luxury of beggars," under pressure, Wagner again to Washington, had a low-key to driving a regular car to. Wall Street executives of these various acts of the financial crisis continue to stimulate the American public has been very weak nerves, no wonder Obama's "pay limit order" 1, immediately received the general support of the American people.
Kamai Long • Russell:
Catch up with this crisis is indeed unfortunate thing, in this time people will not be too selfish.
Charles • hash:

This is an unusual time, the situation is urgent, we can work together to change the situation, asking them in a moment (company executives) to make the slight sacrifice it should be.
Commentary:

"Restricted pay so" locked into whether Wall Street executives, yet the test of time, but became a speech Obama said a word we should all bear in mind that the prosperity of a people and can not be sustained.
Moderator:

Mr. Wang, we look at some of what Obama said, he used all the tough words, for example, it is a shame thing, another one, this is extremely irresponsible thing. We can certainly appreciate that the new president Obama, he took up office on the face of a mess, and even released his own ruthless words, if my first term I can not solve this economic problem, my second Session I will not seek re-election.
This we can understand his impatience, but beyond that, your analysis, he used the words so cruel, what other purpose?
Xi-Zn:

Faced with this economic mess, as the Government should come forward to rescue the market. Obama is now 700 billion U.S. dollars for the second part of the funds used to rescue the market, this time is the use of public finances, to use taxpayer money to rescue these companies, if you want to use public finance to rescue these companies, when Such a policy first obtain political support, if you want to get political support, the public should be able to see the money invested in it, is really able to alleviate the current crisis, rather than on the one hand the Government to spend taxpayer money to rescue They, on the other hand, executives are still able to receive a high fat red envelope, which is up from political considerations.

The second aspect of social psychological perspective, if we are ordinary people living frugally and tighten their belts to tide over this difficult period, but executives can still sit back and relax, then this time the contrast between the community, this fact contrasts will bring a huge psychological loss and imbalance.

Finally, we see, from a moral point of view, Obama repeated his speech in which he repeatedly stressed that responsibility, sense of responsibility, he stressed that each of us has a responsibility to respond to this crisis, and he blamed Wall Street executives, when He used extremely irresponsible. He just has a speech in Congress, those who receive taxpayer-funded businesses have a responsibility but an extravagant life, has repeatedly stressed that responsibility. That is in response to this crisis, if the government actions, then those relief company executives should demonstrate social responsibility and morality.
Moderator:

In fact, we see Obama he gave the Wall Street executives, these executives are receiving assistance of "limited pay order" also have a range of other limited measures, such videos which are also mentioned earlier, you are receiving assistance During your personal spending is what, you what kind of transportation facilities, you even have to wash the so-called SPA, you have to entertainment consumption, you can even how the office is decorated like, that this is the whole set of monitoring system, I want my money out of money, and spend the effect in the end is what.
Xi-Zn:

Yes, because the taxpayer's money invested in it, there are public finance to private enterprises for such relief, of course, the problems related to information disclosure, this is the first level. From the second level, we must ensure that if you are responsible, everyone helping one another, they must ensure that this process, every detail must be open, which is in the implementation of the technology must be able to make the public believe that money is used in the appropriate position.
Moderator:

The key is you spend the taxpayers money, I as a taxpayer I have to know I gave you the money in the end what the rescue, and I can not say I pay you to go take a bath, I can not do.
Xi-Zn:
Yes, otherwise, why rebuild that confidence.
Moderator:

We look at the United States, this system is "pay limit order", the Government has allowed enterprises to form a kind of restricted stock issued to executives additional incentives, such shares only in taxpayer funds to provide these relief , in an all-cash exchange, these stocks can be cash, how do you treat them this system?
Xi-Zn:

I think here embodies a kind of corporate executives, not only about them, allowing them to exercise restraint, but also some incentive for them, in the incentives and restrictions to find a balance between, on the one hand I tell you salary to a maximum limit, on the other hand I can also give you some incentive programs, but these incentive programs can not hold in your hand taxpayer money to tide over the crisis, when the so-called, has also to fulfill these high returns, so it is a balance.
Moderator:

This is a rather ingenious system settings, that is not to say that you killed a stick, or let you see paying the money as long as you clean this, I give you the cash return.
Xi-Zn:
It is the carrot and stick together to make.
Moderator:

We look at this very interesting thing. Obama is a "limited pay to make" a lot of people in the industry say it, you limit not live the wise move, because all of Wall Street executives, is an intelligent person than anyone else, you can limit They 500,000 annual salary, but they can be recycled out of other such a way that he can continue to make money other, second, will cause a brain drain, how do you look at all aspects of this concern.
Xi-Zn:

Other aspects to make money, the details of this operation can be controlled aspects, for example, we mentioned earlier, the layers of information disclosure from the public, this can be effectively controlled, but you just mentioned a very important the problem, because in a free market, free flow of talent itself is, so if I pay too low here, of course, there is a fear that we quit, jump to a higher salary areas. This is entirely possible, but many people in the United States against Obama that "limited Pay Order" into question, mainly because of this reason.

But we have all noticed, in fact, Obama to emphasize the "limited pay order", he repeatedly stressed the moral responsibility of entrepreneurs. For example, people emphasized that you can not be too selfish, everyone in the difficult times you need to make sacrifices, can not be selfish, to make sacrifices, he stressed a sense of morality. Obama repeatedly stressed that the concept of responsibility.

So does the existence of such so-called brain drain, or switch to such a risk, but we also always need to see in difficult times, a sense of responsibility of enterprises and entrepreneurs, in fact, is that social cohesion, and its overall sense of morality of a core elements.
Moderator:

In fact, said the brain drain problem in my view, this may not be a problem, because the economic situation in good time for Wall Street, these people, if there is no dividend boost, they may have no incentive to continue moving forward. But now the economic situation generally poor, and unemployment is generally high, in this case even if no such high dividends, then find a common work so hard, I think the brain drain on them at this time if is not that serious.
Xi-Zn:
Yes, it's expected to decline.
Moderator:

Yes, how do you see on such an economic situation in the United States a high degree of market economy-oriented countries, heads of government made up of such a how a "salary limit order" problem.
Xi-Zn:

The first is to let the government use taxpayers to rescue the city such a program are people in the political support, because all the government's public policy of this significant political support needed basis. Of course, on the other hand I have also talked about, or you all have a psychological need for social recognition.
Moderator:

You are now watching the "news 1 +1", just that we just launched in the studio analysis of the near Obama's "pay limit order", then we will continue to focus on in our country's 1 million annual salary Guotai Junan events .
Moderator:

It seems the world's executives hope that their annual salary paid too high a number, so the United States, China is no different, we look at China. A-share market in 2008, general frustration, and then a rapid decline in trading this case, as our country's leading brokerage Guotai Junan actually produce such a report card, it uses a substantial increase in salary and benefit costs to 3.2 billion compared with the beginning 2.0 billion budget increase by 57%. So people ask, and your name Guotai Junan, but the country does not Thai Jun He An, we might look at Guotai Junan events.

While U.S. President Barack Obama to the Wall Street financial institutions, to 18.4 billion U.S. dollars of the government rescue fund, as year-end dividend distribution to staff and the anger still lingers at the same time, a domestic media also revealed a shocking news: a comprehensive retreat in the securities industry Do shareholders depth quilt cases, the nation's largest brokerage Guotai Junan than last year's salaries and benefits expenses jumped 57% year budget, "distribute money to complete the task over" 12 billion, per capita salary up to 1 million yuan.

"Daily Economic News" news story clues obtained from Guotai Junan's president late last year to send all employees a "summary report" in this report, Guotai Junan Securities in 2008 salary and benefit costs as much as 3.2 billion yuan, far beyond the company's number of 2.041 billion yuan budget early next year. Guotai Junan employees are currently about 3200 or so, the average employee's total income last year was close to 1 million yuan. Various domestic securities firms in 2008, fell sharply against the background of the performance, Guotai Junan is how to achieve such outstanding performance, to raise the average income of employees do?

This is the main business Guotai Junan 2008 budget completion of the tables above clearly show that the project Guotai Junan 2008 actual earnings than the beginning of the budget of the completion rate is not high, mainly the beginning of the project are lower than budgeted, including investments in securities Division 144 million loss in 2008, the completion rate was -9%. In this way, Guotai Junan astronomical salaries of reasonable people have been questioned more and more media and friends of the Guotai Junan contrarian substantially enhance the "pay and benefits" of the in-depth discussions. (User Comments)

Journalists in the survey also found that many ordinary employees, said Guotai Junan did not get one million yuan last year, the income, then up to 32 billion cost of the pay and benefits where gone? In this regard, released yesterday, Guotai Junan "clarification" did not answer that. One brokerage analyst said that so many ordinary workers can not get behind the company's executives may be have been taken away.

If Guotai Junan is a private company, executives have to take the high wages down is beyond reproach. However, the peace and prosperity in the first, second, the three major shareholders are Shanghai State-owned Assets Operation Co., Ltd., Central Huijin Company and Shenzhen Investment Management. That is, it is a state-owned securities firm. Some commentators believe that such "carve up" Is not the loss of state assets it?

Statistics show that the last three years, the CEO's pay average annual growth of over 20%, the financial company executives pay increases in 2007 more than 200%. Which last year was chairman of the huge loss for China Ping Ma Mingzhe 2007, more than 6200 million pre-tax income has led to widespread media discussion. In the background of the financial crisis and the media under public pressure, some corporate executives take the initiative to get, such as China Eastern Airlines in access to substantial capital injection from SAC announced that senior management after a 10% to 30%, but the incident Guotai Junan Exposure is still part of the financial executives that led the astronomical salaries that fact.

In fact, late last year, the departments pay for corporate executives issue a number of restrictions introduced in succession. In the last year, held on December 15 meeting of heads of central enterprises, the SASAC Director Li Rongrong requirements, the central enterprises should pay cuts and layoffs do not break Kong unemployment, but also stressed that if companies want to get, to first pay down the person in charge before you start to consider reducing the pay of workers.
Li Rongrong: austerity first begin with ourselves. Performance increase, pay rise; performance drop, wages must fall.

January 24 this year, the Ministry of Finance also issued a circular calling for financial norms of state-owned and state holding enterprises pay management at all levels responsible for the reasonable control of the Salary. Notice in particular, stressed that "we must resolutely prevent the situation from the current economic situation, industry development and the actual payment of their salaries are too high." There was concern that, at Guotai Junan after a news story, how the event will go? There will be similar to the outdated astronomical salary of news to emerge?
Moderator:
We look at is the Internet survey, for Guotai Junan of this event.

Data, Guotai Junan pay per employee in 2008 than a million, how to look this salary nearly 9 percent of people said that high, we look at, Obama said that Wall Street high dividend shameful. How do you see that China's financial sector paid employees, there are nearly 9 percent of people think this is shameful behavior, that is, the world of executives is the same mentality, the world's people, the taxpayers are also about attitude of, how do you see the results of this survey?
Xi-Zn:

I think this generally reflects the people when they tighten their belts, get-paid executives face a strong psychological resistance, they feel more in line with this attitude I was now this huge psychological contrast.
Moderator:
Then we might also listen to a financial commentators Tan Ye see how she is, then we connect Ye Tan.
Ye Tan (Financial Commentator):
Hello.
Moderator:
Ye Tan, I saw your article today, said Guotai Junan is the system of bonuses, rather than rely on their own viability and profitability of dividends, so why did you say?
Ye Tan:

Is very clear now from the brokerage perspective, we from the Guotai Junan high salaries, in fact, many other brokerage firms also took a highly paid, from the current situation disclosed. Guotai Junan our example, then it is basically a bad situation in the economy last year, it has two main harvest, one is from his first half of 2008, who shares his practice, including the company of corporate shares received a significant amount gift, probably close to 40 billion, is a major source. For each broker is probably accounted for a large proportion of the income of a commission, then we analyze these two pieces of its income, in fact low corporate shares is a system of high-throw bonus, then the commission is also a system of high The dividend, which explains its two dividends are to enjoy the preferential policies, but can not prove the competitiveness of securities firms, profitability is very strong.
Moderator:
This shows no indication of their moral problem?
Ye Tan:

Difficult to say now is a moral issue, because we know that brokerage executives would be paid by the various constraints, because only some of the SAC or the Bank of China Banking Regulatory Commission is concerned the constraints, but it is also constrained by the listed company, it Some guiding principles of the window, as Guotai Junan as this specific part of it there may not be part of it is real hair, but in any case also shows that a higher salary. Since you gave me because of the bonus system, then I obtain a copy of this part of the system of salary.
Moderator:
Speaking of which, Ye Tan I wonder if it is not used to their dividends, then the money, this system of bonuses, it can be done?
Ye Tan:

For future development and growth of enterprises used, as its own funds. There are 1, the Government can come to collect certain taxes, that is, in the form of government tax revenue to balance the rich and the poor throughout the community such a situation.
Moderator:
Ye Tan, please use your analysis to us to explain, Guotai Junan this matter to us is what?
Ye Tan:

Guotai Junan this matter, then, in fact it has two, I think Guotai Junan is a typical case, that is, those in state-owned holding company which, we can not ignore the fact that such a situation, the first of its competitiveness and market It can get concessions from the administration, which can not distinguish two, so we SOE executives, which receive high salaries, in the end of his business ability, or because he has the executive power, we can not distinguish, this is a have to distinguish between the.

Second, many of our large enterprise which has a monopoly on such take broker, the broker after the restructuring, the broker is the innovation category, which has a monopoly of its operating profit, this part of the monopoly The operating profit is not because of its competitive ability is obtained through market competition, but also one, so it does not distinguish between two words, we can not judge this part of the salary is not reasonable, is not its profit from it from the normal operating capacity.
Moderator:

Well, thank Ye Tan, Tan told us just leaves two revelation, a market and administration to be separated, one is to separate competition and monopoly. Let us look again at Guotai Junan it the first two are the three major shareholders, who, the largest shareholder is Shanghai State-owned Assets Management Co., the second largest shareholder is Huijin, the third largest city of Shenzhen Investment Management Co., Ltd. In other words, this is a state-owned nature of the securities company, that such a situation, why the shareholders did not pay them to manage.
Xi-Zn:

Shareholders should have a pay check and balance, we say actually paid in the usual sense, the high salary itself is a very vague concept, so how to set the salaries of corporate executives, first of all is to have an appropriate independent body to determined from the current situation, we said, that a state-funded state-owned enterprises on behalf of persons defined in the process of executive salaries, it should be said that voice has not been fully exploited, there is such an important voice The absence, so a result of what is likely to own my own characterization of executives, so this is not a moral issue, it is probably more a lack of institutional problems.
Moderator:
We have Obama's "pay limit order" which can learn?
Xi-Zn:

Obama's "pay limit order" in fact emphasize moral, ethical and entrepreneurs this is the responsibility of, the other in its policy implementation process, the need for a detail-oriented operational, such as information disclosure , the supervision of the whole society, for our country, highly paid executives, especially highly paid executives of state-owned enterprises, I am inclined to agree with Mr Tan leaves of a view that we are talking about high pay is reasonable, is need to see you get paid and you have nothing to do with performance, then China, now this system is difficult to distinguish my business profits, my performance in the end is my business well managed, or because the system gave me such interest, since you can not distinguish, then it is difficult to define a number of well-paid you are reasonable, it is difficult not to the public to question.

Many men and women will also debate the presence of a question: Is a man or woman unfeeling porn.

Most men say sex is a woman. Because men passionate, red house does not fall, colorful flags fluttering outside, is not only mind can hold two or even more than two women, and that "more is not enough." Each child is precious, sweetheart, love each are, if so passionate as Duanzheng Chun also still passionate man who poured in Need, and the high side is the kind of table eating dinner, snacks, buttressed the hands of delicious, heart, men still think of stealing.

This passionate, is unsympathetic in the eyes of a woman even had sex. His love, to passion when the storm of mighty as to time as the fine, clear after the storm. At first, that keeps love you until the last moment of life man, this time is I do not know which woman speaking against the same words. This happens for men, which refused to give up, which are necessary in life vitamins, minerals, while you plug a desperate hope that this is a man.

Naturally, that's too many women unfeeling men. There is only one reason: You see, if a woman parted with her boyfriend, fellow travelers will form; woman if there lover, a divorce is certainly a woman. Even if a man and his girlfriend, also still thinking about her good, one day or Jiuqingmianmian; men lovers out of many, but for less divorced lover ... ... What Does not unsympathetic woman?

A woman is "absolutely" love, because her heart can not fit on the two men at the same time, there is always the one having left her love of. Her unsympathetic, but to her own feelings seriously: Love is love, not love is not love. This unsympathetic, pain in the moment, but will not cheat and cause more damage.

Sex unsympathetic, what is pornographic and what is unfeeling? Only show the truth: men and women, is simply thinking of two completely different animals, man is the reason, women in the situation.

Li Hong
22 years old junior at a university in Changchun.
Chen Feng
Teach English, professor, 40 years. "Very talented, class spoke Ye Hao, conversation is very humorous."
Chen Feng, a professor of Changchun University of Li Hong and junior girls living together for over a year, shortly before the two sides split.

Subsequently, Chen Feng Li Hong to be a teacher on grounds of rape reported. Schools and police are currently investigating the incident.
She said
Thought with him after graduation
Her teacher's talents attracted

"I do not want sneaky, and can be made each time a break, he hit me!" 20 am, LI into the newspaper, spoke of his love affair with the English teacher burst into tears.

Li Hong, 22, is a junior at a university in Changchun, taught her English professors Chen Feng, 40 years. "Chen is very talented teacher, class spoke Ye Hao, conversation is very humorous." Li Hong said she was deeply attracted talented teachers, during festive seasons, she and the teacher greeting each other text messages. Later, more and more frequent messages.
Teacher requested that she agreed

Last year in April, Chen teacher to get her out, after the two drove to a place and asked Li Hong: "Did you fall in love with a teacher?" Has boyfriend Li Hong said: "Do not know, and teachers can be as a friend between. "In this way, close up between the two men.

With the increase between the two, feelings are deep. Li Hong said in mid-May last year, the two meet, Chen and her teacher made a sexual relationship. The teacher's repeated request, she agreed, then she and her boyfriend parted. Since then, the two often spent the night outside.
She knew he had a wife
"I know he has a wife, but for the teacher to like me to agree, and also dreamed of graduates and teachers together!" Li Hong said.
Slowly, students are aware of the bedroom incident, she and teachers from the teachers and students become a "couple." Clare, Professor Chen will go to her, both to the inn overnight.
Later, Chen applied for a teacher in the school dormitory, where two men became living space.
Last year in June, Li Hong was not feeling diagnosed with gynecological disease.

Li Hong said that a month later, she found some serious illness, need for surgery, the teacher borrowed 3600 yuan, also played IOU, "I never thought this IOU, and later became a teacher broke up the yoke."
She had enough of living covertly
Li Hong told the reporter, with the deepening of exchanges between the two, she felt more and more depressed.
Last year in September, she felt Gengrang she can not accept that as long as every teacher looking for her, she must go, and "so secretive life I've had enough."

"I want to live openly. Last year in October, the first time I broke up with Professor Chen presented the results the teacher hit me, raising his hand. The most serious one, the teacher put my glasses and earrings are wiped out ... ... may be time after The teacher can articulate coax me good. "Li Hong said.
Let her pay back the money as long as the mentioned break

Li Hong said, it is since then, Professor Chen, the restrictions on her more and more, and sometimes want to escape for a while off, Professor Chen will be angry to find her. Send the message to see the boys, he will play the last curse meal, home is sometimes limited.
"Whenever we break off the relationship, Professor Chen will let me pay back the money, also threatened that if something was brought to light, I graduated from college have a problem." Li Hong told reporters.
She would like to remind people fooled
In late June of this year, Chen Li Hong to find a teacher to him, the teachers quarters, both of them quarreled.

LI sitting in front of the building on the steps of quarters shouting: "Professor Chen I beg you, let me!" Professor Chen said: "You go, what you took away!" LI ride a bike away Chen teacher caught up in Silicon Valley Avenue near her. "Either you hit me two ears, we both clean, and do not travel!" Said Li Hong, "Professor Chen is really hit me two hand, I also set up his writings."
Subsequently, the LI report to the vice squad, said Professor Chen has been raped. A month passed, the case has not been results. Li Hong said she also reflects the situation to the school, has no results.
"I stand up and just want to remind other students, not on Tan's when!" Li Hong said she was ready to discuss for themselves through legal means an explanation, to hire a lawyer to sue the teacher.
He said
She would like to extort 100,000 yuan
Her active pursuit of his
"She actively pursuing me!" Yesterday morning, Mr teachers to tell their own difficulties.

Chen says that between the two men has always been active Li Hong, "At that time I have made clear interest, not to give up home with her. But she insisted that like me, willing to with me and they are willing to do a sexual partners. "Professor Chen said, because it was not very harmonious family, he accepted the feelings of Li Hong. Subsequently, Chen Li Hong wrote to his teacher was showing the love letters that read "a person willing to do a woman teacher, as long as you love me, I'll follow you ... ..."
She beat her friend was abused once

"I never restrict her personal freedom!" Professor Chen said, "I teach every day was busy giving lectures, no time to restrict the personal freedom of Li Hong, those other people's text messages are her to show me their's. "With two in-depth exchanges, Chen LI teacher found friends are excessive, but also precisely because of this, he would hit her.

"I really played her first!" Professor Chen admits, it is because he found that LI was kind enough to have contacts with other boys, a very close relationship. That he was really angry, symbolically slapped her head, she also made the final break.
To 100 thousand yuan or else she would blow up

"As for Li Hong said the arrears, it is not a relationship, she borrowed from me, take the initiative to fight the IOU, IOU's date is April 2006." Professor Chen out of the IOU.

Tan's phone has been preserved in a text message, "which she made with others over the phone, she asked me to pay her 100,000 yuan of money, otherwise, things may be big trouble!" Professor Chen said that this was LI in the report and found the school, following an unsuccessful request to the school.

"As a university teacher, what Zhang Yang is the most out of Morals, by a punishment. LI can do, they can destroy her life, also out of this consideration, I have not been looking for a theory of Li Hong. If She has been busy so go on, I will consider taking legal measures to resolve the matter! "Professor Chen said.

Woman alone, usually to move a real man. As a simple woman, not things to be too complicated and not contrary to common sense, make men hard to understand. Happy when they laugh, cry suffering. Complex woman, often mask of life, which makes laughing and crying like crying like laughter, so that men unpredictable.

Simple and complex woman, a woman of different N

A simple woman, often more easily understand the meaning of happiness. That women are not easily fooled simple, but too simple and rough. A simple woman, often thought smart, before things can maintain the independence of mind, not easily deceived.

Almost all the world's women are on life's happiness, the pursuit of cordial Qing Li. But sadly, many women do not know what happiness is? So many women the pursuit of happiness can only be poles apart. Them in the pursuit of happiness while also personally being ruined. It is their hope that too many complex internal conflicts, so that they can not be the easiest way to close to happiness.

A simple woman, often relying on nature to truly love a man. Not a simple woman, always in her affective behavior into many non-emotional things. Complex woman, would rather believe the substance of the reliability, the credibility of suspected emotional, which makes their understanding of happiness there was a serious deviation.

A simple woman, often pure, only the transparent heart. Like a pure gem, people feel he's absolutely pure, but there is a price to forget her. And complex values a woman prone to wander, they feel there is no stability, and their easily fickle mind. They act with people, always reminding each other in various ways, they are valuable.

Why would a man of some women to Lianxiangxiyu? Love with Canada? Complex because they fear will hurt their own women's simple. They simply love women, but also to close simple, otherwise, they harvest only the women's tears, the tears and sharper than the knife. A simple woman in tears, and would make love to her man, feel his own selfish and cruel, and then let their loved one in tears, perhaps, is simply a real man to a woman's commitment.

Not just women, often think they are smart enough. Any man could not cheat her. But they give men the feeling, often not so pure. They were secular prostitution, pollution was serious enough. They are often men and relationships, often in a state of mind to check, rather than in front of her lover, to pay a hundred-percent true. They are difficult to obtain a man destined to love.

Women simply do not understand some of the mundane things, not necessarily less intelligent. Their nature is as sparkling as snow, can not be stained by this world. A simple woman, very easy to simply love one life to love to hardened. Complex woman, a man suspected of love, and life has left a number of retreat.

A simple woman, very easy to meet, and know how to love her lover and child! A simple woman, their fun, will also be very simple. A simple woman, a man most worthy of love, because they own the same as the embodiment of love, happiness is simple to understand, love is pure truth.

And complicated woman, and the happiness to be too complicated way to achieve happiness, and placed outside the protection in the above feelings, they often end up not happy, but a true love of the doubt and loss of confidence, as well as men The so-called "betrayal."