Having an affair, be seen as the natural enemy of marriage. But even in our traditional family values, like China a strong country where, from government officials, down to the poor people, the story of betrayal are played day and night, and have become worse. People on the one hand against the occurrence of extramarital affairs of their spouses, on the other hand, has to take concrete action to force extra-marital affairs, the promotion of the extra-marital affairs become a social fashion and culture, said that in some cities have become a common phenomenon, love, marriage, family and social ethics, tradition, forming a serious challenge. So, people having an affair then why?

1, the only constant is change. The world is not the same people, and things so. Although the eternal topic of human love, though love is when people tend to eachother, never change of heart, but through the ages, the story of betrayal has never ceased, even laying in the Ming emperor has a lot of women are no exception. This is because as time, space, and have contacted the people and things change, people's views on love as well as other ideas are constantly changing, most people are unlikely to willingly the "tree and hanged." In the past, the reason most people the story of betrayal did not occur, it is because the economic, family, organizational, social and legal, moral constraints one side or the result of many aspects, not people voluntarily not having an affair.

Second, is human nature to hate the old. Anything in the world development and progress, some ways in terms of, is the result of people's grass is always greener. In human food, clothing, housing, use the line, no not the grass is always greener in the. If human beings never eat one or a few raw food, there was no bread and water, delicacy, the palace banquet, folk snacks, there was no food industry and food culture and its development; if humans do not hate the old, to walk like animals , there was no bikes, cars, trains, airplanes and other transportation inventions ... .... Economics tells us that, because of diminishing marginal utility, people are always looking for new satisfaction, always in the pursuit of utility maximization. In fact, the love between men and women while also giving the other party to meet their own utility. Any person, and things such as the utility is always brought to people was decreasing trend over time then gave people numb and weary, and even abandoned (although most people did not eventually give up the marriage, that is by many constraint results). No one can life get from their spouses who fall in love like the kind of utility, it is impossible for life to fall in love as their spouses, as the utility, especially heart felt joy.

Third, having an affair with the mystery. Anything more is not open, the more is a mystery, and mankind is a curious and mysterious animal. When you walk in the street and found a bunch of people are around something in animated conversation, gesticulating and you will generate ideas to see what happens, so also squeeze in the past, Dian from the toe of view, the original is The dog had just been crushed car. This is the curious and mysterious feel insecure. By the secret love between men and women to open marriage, from strangers to the morning till evening, which is constantly open to each other process, but also continuously to the other side to lose a sense of curiosity and mysterious process. While having an affair but because of inconvenience to the public, the curiosity of those who meet the betrayal and mystery.

Fourth, the community provides a relaxed environment. Since it is a kind of betrayal and not be made public behavior, of course, secret, that in time and space must be separated from their families, organizations and community supervision, which made the environment free of new requirements. The current development of the social environment changes, people in time and space with more uncertainty, liquidity and selectivity, organizations and society will be more and more as a personal betrayal, to reduce the interference by public authority private power, which provided an opportunity to betrayal and convenience.

Internationally renowned expert on interpersonal relationships and emotional John Gray pointed out that the woman who is not born of sexual repression, men are not born sex expert. In sexual life, both sides should try to find both suitable and appropriate for men and women "
Sex techniques "to create a harmonious intimate relationships.
10 tips to add power sex

1, is responsible for their own sexual pleasure. Mainly directed against his wife, the wife the right to sexual pleasure on their own initiative put forward the request. When the spirit of the poor, poor health, you should politely refused her husband. In sexual life, to find pleasure for themselves, and efforts to make her husband understand their needs.

2, harmonious life contribute to a happy sex life. Daily life, husband and wife take care of each other, mutual understanding, strengthening marital relations, harmonious mood, the best way to enhance intimacy.

3, changing the way of life. Long-term in a way, prone to boredom. Both sides should be innovative, you can try a different time, different circumstances, different locations for different posture.

4, do not wait for the orgasm. Women in the hard to reach orgasm, may wish to try other sexual lifestyles, such as self-touching stimulus to see some paintings with sexual content, etc., that may be helpful.
5, should be appropriate to sexual fantasy. This can increase the sexual pleasure of both.

6, not to discontent into sex. If the result of temporary quarrel, sulk and whine, etc., not in sexual life with each other, or temporary suspension of life, will bring to the future hidden sex life.
7, sex life problems to consult experts in time. Sexual problems such as a party, must not shy and suffer in silence, otherwise it will bring more family problems.

8, not the bottom in perfection. Some people (especially men) always hope that every single life is perfect, or not blame is blame each other. To know that experts in this area is difficult to bottom in perfect.

9, not to temporary failure of the sexual life of a little too seriously. Temporary impotence men, women occasionally reach orgasm are normal, do not always bear in mind to avoid anxiety, tension, etc., to the subsequent negative impact on sexual life.

10, to create a harmonious environment for sex. Harmonious sexual life of a happy environment has a positive role in promoting the degree. Messy room, noise interference, no isolation facilities, will seriously affect the quality and quantity of life.

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Beijing reported this reporter Ching-Yuan Chang

In the December 31, 2008 State Council executive meeting, the State Council issued "to support the views of Chongqing urban and rural test" and approved a comprehensive reform area of Chongqing comprehensive reform program.

In the year 2008, the State Council approved a total of 4 copies of comprehensive reform program, namely, in March approved a comprehensive reform program in Tianjin, in September approved the "Wuhan city circle" comprehensive reform programs and approved just a week ago "long zhutan "comprehensive reform package.
"Revitalize the rural collective construction land" into a comprehensive reform priorities

Relying on the State Department reported in the comprehensive reform plan of Chongqing, Chongqing, China put forward an application to open a new trend of the "Land Exchange", the exchange has to be listed on December 4.

Chongqing is also hoped that this wholly-owned by the Chongqing Municipal Government, the registered capital 50 million yuan in exchange, revitalize rural collective construction land, construction land, especially in rural house sites through the development order, a land reserve resources.

Chongqing, written by a person involved in this program told this reporter that the establishment of rural land market, urban-rural factor markets can be fully activated by the city and even across the country, land transactions, and promote land intensive, large-scale, market utilization, so that curing of the land resources can flow into the capital. "Land can really move, the factor markets in rural areas live up to."

In order to complete with this idea, Chongqing in the program also made the request to support the establishment of Chongqing, consolidation regulation of rural land reserve system, this idea has also been approved. Meanwhile, in order to promote rural land in particular, sporadic block transfer, protection of legitimate rights and interests of peasants, of Chongqing city plans by the District Government to set up rural land reserve institutions, responsible for the administrative area of rural land transfer order before the concentration of reserves and regulation.
"Yangtze River upper reaches of the regional financial center" dream
Financial sector has also become the focus of Chongqing demand for comprehensive reform point. Chongqing in the program specifically, to create "the upper Yangtze financial center."

The comprehensive reform program in Chongqing mentioned, apply for restoration of the establishment of Chongqing Commodity Exchange and carry out agricultural products, industrial raw materials as the main staple varieties of futures trading, pioneered in Chongqing pilot the issuance of bonds; support to carry out insurance reform in Chongqing pilot , set up in Chongqing West Insurance Industry Innovation pilot areas, will include policy-oriented agricultural insurance in Chongqing pilot areas, in the "during" the introduction of 200 billion yuan of insurance funds invested in Chongqing's "one-hour economic circle" construction.

Chongqing also hopes that the central government will include overall financial management reform in Chongqing pilot areas, the establishment of financial holding companies, the integrated management of the pilot, to promote the reform of financial institutions; apply to the inter-bank market of Chongqing as a pilot area of product innovation, the first in Chongqing to carry out various types of asset-backed securities, real estate investment trusts and other inter-bank market transactions pilot products, select the operating norms of trust as a pilot object, allowing the Trust product purchase transactions in the interbank market, increase product liquidity.

In addition, Chongqing also proposed bills in the center of the existing Industrial and Commercial Bank of China, based on the guidance in the People's Bank under the supervision of an independent legal entity in an electronic instrument trading center in Chongqing to play the Midwest Stock Exchange as the only central enterprise property rights trading platform, building elements of the regional capital market, set up the Yangtze River upper reaches of the trust property registration centers.

In fiscal policy, Chongqing will be encouraged to apply industry and other corporate income tax rate of 15% preferential tax policies for the maintenance of 2020. In addition, since it became a municipality of Chongqing in central Chongqing each year to give a certain amount of special subsidies, grants expire in 2008, Chongqing will continue to enjoy respect for this policy. Allowed to apply for the central authorities in Chongqing and medium-sized water conservancy projects, 50% for the Three Gorges reservoir area, focusing on a stable reservoir resettlement and social security wealth, geological disaster prevention and ecological environmental construction and protection. Southern Newspaper Media Group -21 Century Business Herald

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The trick for men to live longer
Look at the bright side
Mayo Clinic study shows that optimistic people live longer. From participation in the study subjects, found that happy people than unhappy people, 19 less
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Relax

Britain has done for hundred of people found that 46% of people know how to handle stress. There are several ways to deal with stress, such as exercise, meditation, or do you like to do. Even if something is not done, is also a relaxation. Men often due to intense competition, and irritability, sometimes selfish, doing nothing is also a non-selfish.
Flossing teeth

Not only reduce the chance of tooth decay, dental floss can be used to protect your heart. American Academy of Periodontology that people suffering from periodontal disease than those who did not suffer more than double the chance to get coronary disease.
More Sex

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Blood

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Go

Harvard Medical School and School of Public Health doctors found that more social life of the people, will live longer, will increase the quality of life. A town of Roseto, Pennsylvania in the United States long-term study found that the town town died of heart disease was very low, because the people of this town are Italian immigrants, they have a strong support of community organizations and village sense.
To that end of the red carpet

A 22-year-long study found that both the 50,60 or 70-year-old man, married live longer than unmarried. There is no risk of a duodenal ulcer for 8,500 people to investigate, when they did not suffer from duodenal ulcer. But five years later, fill out the questionnaire at the beginning of his wife for their love and support of low people, the probability of suffering from duodenal ulcer is twice that of others. Medical Association chairman Yeung said Jianghan men, most of the couples present at the same time, the status of hormones subside, this time also need to care about each other mutual support.
Crossword

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Doctor

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