Many middle-aged men have risen up beer belly, beer seems to make fat consensus, but this is the lack of scientific basis. Recently, researchers in Britain and the Czech Republic nearly 2,000 Czechs on the drinking habits and obesity status of a random sample, found that beer belly and how much beer does not matter much. In fact, only 150 calories a glass of beer calories, fat and only 0.3 grams. German Federal Medical Association, the latest nutritional research shows that beer belly and the male genes related to fat from the hips like a female, like most men, the fat stored in the abdomen.

Of course, every man different genes and trigger the possibility of different beer belly, for middle-aged people, the quality of sleep is the main cause. As we age, men also will reduce deep sleep stages, as the poor quality of sleep, hormone secretion will be reduced, the lack of hormones cause the body to increase fat tissue, and gathered in the abdomen, and older also increased.

In addition, many middle-aged man sitting in office a long time, lack of exercise, likely to cause abdominal fat accumulation. In-pressure situations, many people eating too much, leading to indigestion, which could easily lead to overweight. To eliminate beer belly, need to work together in many ways, for example, usually 7 minutes to eat full meals a day, at least 30 minutes, a warm bath before bedtime to improve sleep status.

This is an old man speaking in the story of a talk show.

A man to be selected in one of three women as marriage partners, he decided to do a test, so he gave five thousand dollars each and every woman, and observe how they handle the money.

The first woman dressed from head to toe again, she went to a beauty salon design a new hairstyle, he painted a beautiful makeup, also bought a new a jewelry, a man who presented himself to the neat. She told him: she did everything to make him think she was more attractive, simply because she is so in love with him, a man was very moving.

Procurement of the second woman to the man of many gifts, she bought him a set of golf balls, some computer accessories, and some expensive clothes. When she took the gift, she told him the reason to spend the money to buy just because she is so loved him. Men are deeply moved.

The third woman, the money invested in securities market, she earned the money several times in 5000 yuan. Then the man returned to 5000 yuan, and the rest of the money to open a joint account the two men. She told him she would like to lay the economic foundation the future of the two, because she is so in love with him. Of course, that a man deeply moved again.

The three men approach a woman to consider a very long time, and then he decided to marry the woman his wife which the largest chest.

This story for all of the ladies swore almost unanimous “Men are the dead virtue.” Implying that men lust, re-vision, light feeling. For a woman to man in general, I have been defend to the death, and frankly admitted that the dead men virtue. Even then be hidden again virtuous man, also in the bones of the chest a large woman imagination.

In real life, an interesting phenomenon is that women always like to use to evaluate good and bad man, but never without a man to evaluate the good and bad. Once a female reader asked me: Wat silent, you’re a good man or bad man? I gave her answer: Pan encountered, I am sure is a bad man; met you, I am sure is a good man. In fact, the subtext of my answer is: there is no absolute reliability of the so-called good man, a man who is reliable, the means to see the woman he is valid. If the change to the words of Lu Xun, is that there are no bad men this was a woman who yelled more, have become a bad man.

Dead man’s last chat virtue, it seems has always been the case. Great director John Woo in the movie “Red Cliff” in the world of old men to vertical and horizontal Cao obscenity of her beautiful Little Joe said something great when the truth: the desire of young people. Although the phrase modern lines are Fangjian probability, but also points to the idea of men most true: beauty engender desire.

This is an era full of desire, the desire to be completely hidden women wake up, man desires to be boundless potential excitation. Today, television, newspapers and magazines, the streets, women are clamoring to do “very” good, even life-saving efforts of hospitals are clamoring woman “no big deal,” one trouble is sited in a woman The attack, the man she thinks this is less eyes, like a sharp scissors, cut off a woman who can not wait for all the modesty thing. To this end, I often lamented: When a woman seeking breast beauty and high fashion standards, while Bust a man sexy woman judge whether or not the natural scale, dead men do not put askew virtue, all apologies to the rough The Flirt generations.

Therefore, in the chest can also be swept across the world’s great age, men choose large breast woman, I was not surprised. I have always respected the old man’s angry youth, Mr. Lu Xun nature There is a classic comment: “see the arms think of thigh.” I have the book, “men and women something that” is this interpretation of Lu Xun’s comments: The men love a woman with the eyes, the most vulnerable to the lure of the beautiful; women think about men, love heart, the most vulnerable to suffering heart. Therefore, men choose women seat of your pants, women choose men by perception.

At this age, marital loyalty is plummeting, extra-marital betrayal and I do not know since when has become a hot topic and polls. So, how men view their own “derailment” of this behavior? Let us listen to those extra-marital betrayal of the men their thoughts now!
For most men, extramarital affairs, said little guilt or remorse

“I got married 35 years. I do not want any change – but our sex life to be improved. According to the present We had a very good standard. I have several extra-marital sexual experience, without the knowledge of his wife. I understand that nothing bad impact, but also know that some good results – every time the experience will teach me some ‘new’ things, I use at home. “

“Because I love, strong sex life and relationships with peers and get married. And my wife having sex is good, but I like the epistemic. I do not like monogamy, it is too limited and too unilateral a. Extra-marital affairs impact on me only the separation of grief, has never affected the marriage, because I will never be stupid enough to tell my wife. “

“I got married nearly 20 years. As the years passed, more and more happy sex life. I have had extramarital affairs, without the knowledge of my wife. I plunge, the first girl in love with impunity. This experience let me know , if not mind control the emotion, the result would look like, Since then I have not the same. I do not know this love What is the impact on the marriage, I never thought about the relationship between me and my wife and I and the girls What relevance relations. “
Most men said that extramarital affairs have good impact on their
“In my first marriage I did have extramarital sex. My wife is innocent. Great influence on me, no effect on the marriage.”

“I have been involved in extramarital affair 20 years. Many revel in, some are long-term relationships, maintain 3 to 4 years. My wife did not know, now I have two affair, so very nice to me.”
Some people said that extramarital affairs well, because it is self-enhancement:
“It would be very wonderful experience and enhance the self.”
“I was having an affair. They almost destroyed my self from the emotional state of depression pulled. It does not affect my marriage.”
“My wife affair without the knowledge, I have a good effect on – a good change, and strengthened my self-esteem, because I am very attractive.”

“For two years I did not live with his wife, and had an affair, and I enjoy it. It makes me feel very sexy, a pretty good, a few years later, I told my wife this matter, she thinks that my frank is a malicious act, and that I should not tell her. but I really do not think having an affair on our relationship or marriage have a significant impact. “

“About four years ago, I found myself dissatisfied with sexual life than before, when the opportunity appeared affair. This relationship to maintain two or three months, the frequency is twice a week see the face. My wife has never been found, from the psychological level, which greatly inspired me, let me sparkle. Now I was satisfied in sex, but will still feel the occasional romantic look is very satisfied, but no one was hurt in the case. “
Extramarital affairs to help them retain or develop a more independent self-

“Monogamy is a problem. Now I come to believe, in any case for me, there must be some room for extra-marital affairs. Extramarital contacts to help me better understand myself to prove myself in the end is kind of a person, know their new level. “
“The current experience very good to me – let me see that he is very sexy and sentimental, this is not my marriage, and some experience.”
“I got married 6 years been taught since childhood to accept almost completely on the concept of trust and commitment, but I like to have several marriages.

Last 3 years I had 3 affairs, those relationships are not fully open is not entirely a secret, but some things did not respond, not to mention many’s Biography. They do not improve my marriage, because they are not part of marriage. But they improve my situation, cultivated my independent personality and self-esteem. Although I have always loved his wife, but our sex life scarred, and often move to other areas. I do not know these relationships more and more open to express my marriage trend is becoming more open, or it is dead. “

“It’s hard which choice to lead a life member of the conservative, or free. I do not care how others look at me. At present, my wife and I live a stable, respectable life, but has a long-term extramarital affairs to I enjoyed another successful life (‘real’ to me?). I know this is fraud, but I do not realize how Debu do their faithful. “
Some people simply enjoy the extra-marital affairs
“4 and a half years of marriage. Marriage made by the very nature of the restrictions. I had two affairs, satisfactory and exciting at the same time get a great feeling of satisfaction. Wife are unaware of.”
“I am happy to get what I want outside the home, and enjoy the taste of the kind of excitement and adventure.”
“Extra-marital affairs affect on me was to re-assert themselves, to restore youthful vigor and excitement.”
A handful of people that guilt
“I love my marriage. I have extra-marital affairs, but rarely. Outside of the sex will bring a very strong sense of guilt, not likely to enhance the marriage relationship.”
“The current impact of an affair on my guilt, which is the reason why we have a showdown.”
“I cheat my wife, I feel guilty – they mean low-level.”

“I think the affair would be suspected, but could not confirm. I feel guilty, and half because I want to be honest with yourself, so ended the marriage. No matter how, before the start of the affair, our marriage has been shaken.”

“Right now I and second wife, married for 3 years. I like to get married. We closely tied, no more than the home warmer place. But on the outside, without the knowledge of his wife, I did have sexual relations with another woman. I feel ugly, and it almost destroyed my marriage, because my wife felt. “

“I have concealed from his wife’s extra-marital sexual experience, I feel sorry for her. I feel strong regret, remorse endless, but still go on … … always afraid to get caught, lose everything (which I deserved). Unless bad luck the lead, I am very cautious and not let this interfere with my marriage. and I must admit that sometimes, after a while precarious, through an affair with another woman, I was able to restore ties of marriage – - There is no doubt out of guilt. This makes me feel a little debt to repay, I always sympathize with her and wanted to sincerely care for her. all of these guilt complex response, let me rationalize their excursion. “
For some people, guilt is only temporary
“At first, I hate myself, and then I got used to it, and love.”
“I have had a very casual, no emotion involved in extramarital sex, my wife did not know. A few days later I feel sad, but then no longer feel comfortable.”
Some people tried to extramarital sex, but did not like:
“I do not care about the same time have a lot, I just find myself unable to handle them.”
“I was lying in bed with another woman, think of my wife, how deep the damage, so I cried to sleep. And then go home – it is my place.”
“In a recent analysis, I have determined, extra-marital affairs are boring, but his wife or partner is not coincidental fair.”

“Married for over 30 years. The experience of having an affair, I have twice, once in my first marriage degree, one in the second marriage. Of respect, love two very short – perhaps only 3 to 6 times of exposure. brought me bad results, I am full of guilt, that he is a fool bully on the 1st. I do not for extra-marital affairs. “
“Only once an affair is adultery or experience – with a friend’s wife. I feel that moral degradation.”

“I prefer high quality, meaningful monogamous relationship. I have a few affairs, but because it is having an affair outside of marriage, they always cast a shadow, which makes emotional and physical tired.”

“I am now racking their brains wondering whether I can really be content with the test and the value of monogamy. Frankly, I think I may be more inclined to this, rather than romantic love everywhere. The latter tend to be superficial and difficult to maintain . However, monogamous relationship, if rooted in the growth of each other, share and support each other, it will certainly increase the depth of an individual’s life and meaning. at least this is my own life experience to the beginning. “

Aside morality, honor and ethics, etc. These constraints, everyone will feel subconscious need a lover, however, is having an affair as long as there exists more or less on the feelings of betrayal, is having an affair would hurt the other party, therefore, We call the force of love and marriage, loyalty.

Although the outcome of the extramarital affair is not the same, but the final choice of men and women often show their gender characteristics. Married man in love often plead the promise to break up with his wife, re-knot harmonious union with the lover.

However, in real life and keep his word of faith man is still rare, many people have all kinds of excuses to stall for time, delay the promise into practice, the general course of their extramarital affair is often “happy new without Yanjiu” to ” do not abandon the new Yan Jiu. ” So, a real man at the crucial moment retreat from, whether it means that men more selfish, insincere, or even treachery it?

Undeniably, there are indeed some men in order to meet the momentary desires or the pursuit of sensory stimulation, and the lover as a temporary replacement, many of whom are playing the female moral liar; What is more, threatening his career in Fortune lover can not escape, in order to complete remove barriers to slaughter. But more married man struggling in the dual, wandering in a dilemma, there is the social, psychological and moral of the story was, its only ethical value judgments do not help biased.

First, despite the community’s recognition of men’s sexual transgressions tolerant than women, but the moral evaluation of the value of personal integrity is still a major scale, even in the highly open nature of the concept of Western developed countries, the private lives of celebrities are still about a career, future . Moreover, men always pay more attention to their social role and business value, extramarital affairs are often just their colorful life of a romantic episode, if the United States to co-existence of Qi, complement each other, they naturally expect it both ways, do not want to swim This is fascinating but treacherous vortex. However, once and reputation, cause conflict, they usually weigh stepping down gracefully and reluctantly must sell, very few promising lover at the expense of their own good husband, good father’s reputation, and even carrying the family ethics violation charges as well as self-destructive fool who bright future man.

Second, although the tendency of men’s sexual values, pluralistic, open and love, but they make a decisive choice is often more rational than women, more realistic. They long for romantic and exciting affair, but more regret and practical, light marriage facts, may be better spent at home wildflowers Yan Mei, mellow, without losing a warm, elegant, and often more beautiful with age, is good enough; lovers give their take though to intoxicated freshness, but this romantic love although Qinren the heart, but after all, too insecure. Moreover, a married man in tasting the forbidden fruit, the most part, not with the lover became devoted married couple’s expectations, therefore, often only for their extramarital affairs over the load, stress the social role to add some fun, relaxation a bit, as they become standardized The dull monotony of life just to add some spices and dotted, once faced with the choice between the two will be one or the other, they give back most of this rather desperate romantic love, and return to secular, peaceful reality.

Again, not necessarily in a marriage crisis, as when man strayed into restricted areas, many people simply were less controlled, impulsive and “slip”, so their extramarital affairs were mostly “emotional” and not “tempted” and had less body carefully into feelings. Moreover, real-life wife far more than competent husband, a married man in the family were not in the lack of basic physiological and psychological satisfaction, nor the lack of sweetness, happiness, when they become dizzy or out of helpless lover Department made “repudiation” of the commitments, returned home to face the reality, they often qualified by his wife, family roles and indefensible, hesitantly.

Once added became public, his wife tend to target point to a third party to forgive her husband, even doubling the tender to influence her husband, the husband became even more shame, remorse ashamed, and even come to their senses and to “abandon the new nostalgia.” Among them, though the husband and wife are also some sub-nature, but because his wife put up with hardships as a good wife usually has little fault, or his wife had worked to make their own sacrifices, and now change their position, could not bear to hurt the vulnerable first wife, or forced standard pressure, no courage out of marriage wall.

Men often originate from their wives and children of conscience and responsibility, or succumb to the pressure of the secular public, extramarital affairs ground chicken in the back of confidence, despite loss to lovers, but after all, they are troubled by the rational choice dilemma. Although the outcome of the extramarital affair is not the same, but the final choice of men and women often show their gender characteristics. Married man in love often plead the promise to break up with his wife, re-knot harmonious union with the lover. However, in real life and keep his word of faith man is still rare, many people have all kinds of excuses to stall for time, delay the promise into practice, the general course of their extramarital affair is often “happy new without Yanjiu” to ” do not abandon the new Yan Jiu. ” So, a real man at the crucial moment retreat from, whether it means that men more selfish, insincere, or even treachery it?

Undeniably, there are indeed some men in order to meet the momentary desires or the pursuit of sensory stimulation, and the lover as a temporary replacement, many of whom are playing the female moral liar; Even more threatening his career in Fortune lover can not escape, in order to complete remove barriers to slaughter. The husband appealed, but more in the dual struggling hovering in a Dilemma, there is the social, psychological and moral of the story was, its only ethical value judgments inevitably do so biased.

First, despite the community’s recognition of men’s sexual transgressions tolerant than women, but the moral evaluation of the value of personal integrity is still a major scale, even in the highly open nature of the concept of Western developed countries, the private lives of celebrities are still about a career, future . Moreover, men always pay more attention to their social role and business value, extramarital affairs are often just their colorful life of a romantic episode, if the United States to co-existence of Qi, complement each other, they naturally expect it both ways, do not want to swim This is fascinating but treacherous vortex. However, once and reputation, career conflicts, they often weigh the interest in stepping down gracefully and reluctantly must sell, very few promising lover at the expense of their own good husband, good father’s reputation, and even carrying the family ethics violation charges as well as self-destructive fool who bright future man.

Second, although the tendency of men’s sexual values, pluralistic, open and love, but they make a decisive choice is often more rational than women, more realistic. They long for romantic and exciting affair, but more regret and practical, light marriage facts, may be better spent at home wildflowers Yan Mei, mellow, without losing a warm, elegant, and often more beautiful with age, is good enough; lovers give their take though to intoxicated fresh, but this romantic love although Qinren the heart, but after all is too insecure. Moreover, a married man in tasting the forbidden fruit, the most part, not with the lover became devoted married couple’s expectations, therefore, often only for their extramarital affairs over the load, stress the social role to add some fun, relaxation a bit, as they become standardized The dull monotony of life just to add some spices and dotted, once faced the two will be one or two options, most of them back to give up this rather desperate romantic love, and return to secular, peaceful reality.

Again, not necessarily in a marriage crisis, as when man strayed into restricted areas, many people simply were less controlled, impulsive and “slip”, so their extramarital affairs were mostly “emotional” and not “tempted” and had less body carefully into feelings. Moreover, real-life wife far more than competent husband, a married man in the family were not in the lack of basic physiological and psychological satisfaction, nor the lack of sweetness, happiness, when they become dizzy or out of helpless lover Department made “repudiation” of the commitments, returned home to face the reality, they often qualified by his wife, family roles and indefensible, hesitantly.

Once added became public, his wife tend to target point to a third party to forgive her husband, even doubling the tender to influence her husband, the husband became even more shame, remorse ashamed, and even come to their senses and to “abandon the new nostalgia.” Among them, though the husband and wife are also some sub-nature, but because his wife put up with hardships as a good wife usually has little fault, or his wife had worked to make their own sacrifices, and now change their position, could not bear to hurt the vulnerable first wife, or forced standard pressure, no courage out of marriage wall.

Men often originate from their wives and children of conscience and responsibility, or succumb to the pressure of the secular public, extramarital affairs ground chicken in the back of confidence, despite loss to lovers, but after all, they are troubled by the rational choice dilemma.

Health Guidance: nowadays, 45 in middle age have a common feeling: the pace of life faster and faster, work more and more hectic, and everyone is like a quick run of the machine a part, stop, stopping not down … … Over time, the body will be there all the worrying situation.

45-year-old male bear more of the family and social responsibilities, but there was no bear heavy responsibility for their own health. “Men’s Health consists of two parts, one is big, healthy, overall health status, including blood pressure, blood sugar is normal, the body coordinating the various systems work. There is another ‘small’ health, that is male-specific issues. On my mind including cancer, prostate disease, sexual dysfunction and lack of male sex hormones such as some. “

Wang Zhong pointed out that four or five years old, men began to benign prostatic hyperplasia, manifested as urinary frequency, urgency, frequent night, get up in the night to urinate, increased urination waiting time. Most men also began at this stage the low sexual desire.

Men in this age group is also prone to some of the lack of sex hormones, “many male hormones like female menopause, as not normal, regular, stable, lower it slowly.” Lack of sex hormones with diabetes mellitus, cognitive dysfunction, sexual dysfunction and other closely related.

Osteoporotic fractures in male patients, 7% -30%, there is a lack of sex hormones; men decreased serum sex hormone levels, may lead to coronary artery disease. Wang Zhong pointed out that sex hormone deficiency is the performance of aging, and this delayed the gland hypofunction (LOH) concept was proposed and in recent years, but caused a great medical attention.

“We often say that to ‘Where there is life’. Overall health is a big mountain, we need to proceed from the overall situation, if abnormal medical treatment should be positive.” Zhong explained that medical examinations should first appeal to men on a regular basis.

First, the prostate, including prostate volume check; at 50, but also to PSA as a routine examination. In addition, should regularly check the sex hormone levels, is still inconclusive. However, if no other changes in the body, there has been sexual dysfunction, mental decline, physical fitness decreased significantly after angioplasty hot flushes and sweating, the four aspects, we should attract attention, and this may indicate lower levels of sex hormones .

In addition, U.S. experts said that if there have been following the signal, perhaps explain the disease has been close to you:
1. Arrived in middle-aged or younger, had potbellied, may be related to sex hormone deficiency, often of high blood lipids, hypertension and coronary heart disease precursor;
2. There were significant alopecia, alopecia areata, bald early, may be excessive stress or mental tension time performance;
3. Attenuation of early sexual function, sex hormones may be the lack of pressure and the role of other factors;
4. Met an acquaintance actually forgot his name and address;
5. Mental arithmetic ability is low, often must rely on utility computing;
6. Often dizziness, blurred vision, tinnitus, headache, they can not find the specific problems;
7. Middle-aged to frequent urination, defecation, in connection with prostate health;
8. Sleep is not practical, a slight sign of trouble to wake up, wake up tired after the whole body feels;
9. Doing things can not concentrate and inefficient.
Wang Zhong stressed, middle-aged people should not ignore changes in the body can not “deceiving” to live, the result will be dragged into the serious illness of small disease.