Most frequently occurs in bed the question is: man is the microwave oven, just a few button buttoned, a woman is working slowly and deliberately cooks, prepare to spend a whole day materials, preheating, and the need to simmer a small fire. So our proposal is: a man should try to slow down the pace, can finish in a few seconds to preheat, stretching that to a few minutes, let the woman gradually excited. As for the return? Of course, her desires in the fire of passion. Chinese men in particular to learn these lessons are an important part of flirting.

You are ready, she needs to warm. She lit the fire of love now:

1. Give her a sexy underwear

If you think that by sending regular underwear would be too old fashioned, then select the sexy underwear. You do not want to make love to find time to look, for example, when eating in a restaurant, handed her under the table, and put her to the toilet. Seems exaggerated, but her door is a little bit of desire began to be opened. Of course, the first date is not recommended to use this trick.

2. Hug her until she wants to leave

Allow women kissing master the most exciting, but do not underestimate the power of warm embrace, especially if the initiative to embrace her. Let her know that you do not want to stop hugging her.

3. Mouth hanging her name

Women like men called their names. The more specific the better ways to use her name, for example: in the middle of a word called her name, her name written on your shoulders, your hands – any place where she can see. This is a painless tattoo instead, he would bring joy. This will make her happy, she will think you care about her.

4. Whisper in her ear

In public, gathering, and said to her what you want to come later: “Tonight, I will let you keep to the climax.” For women, such as interactive and real combat excitement.

5. Do not send flowers, send cards

Put a bunch of flowers in the office a little out of date. If you want special point to send cards right. This ingenious mind to make your companion in the non-sex, they also want you. From the “Thank You Card” started to write, write what you never had a chance to thank her for details – Sunday morning breakfast for you, clean you out in the wash basin of beard stubble. Get your praise of a woman during the day, the same will return to you at night.

6. Put her photo on the wallet

Commonplace in a way that appears in your wallet in her possession a photo. This is a good small, but whom benefited. Women are naturally inclined to thumb through things around, when she turns the wallet or the occasional glimpse, are undoubtedly a feel pleased but not in her.

7. Told the reason she loves her

Everyone will say “I love you”, but let a man in love to explain why love is difficult. Maybe the way she nibble of chocolate, or drink alcohol when she slightly wrinkled nose of cutesy demeanor. The more you give her a unique reason, she felt more special.

8. Remember the details with you

To tonight and after the life is perfect, we should remember the first time together everything: where you were, what she was wearing, what you talk about, feel. Often recite in mind, these are major power in future generations.

9. Express your love-sick

In many parts of the room left love note: refrigerator, bathroom mirror, under her pillow. These are too sweet move that might make you feel contrived, acid, false. But a real man fall in love, have lost too many acts of rational reference value and, most importantly, she will think you are like a lovelorn youth.

10. It for her lips

To help a woman is a reverse behavior modification, she will feel to be dotted and access to services, but also make her feel a part of her body to attract you. Other ways: to help her scratch feet, the toes oil, her hair. According to a foreign online survey, 76% of men washed their hair partner.

One day, a man drinking wine, drunk to go home, he saw his wife Zhang posted a note on the refrigerator: “tofu in the fridge, dried bean curd on the table, my bed … …” The man did not understand “I am in bed” The deep meaning of the results and writing in the following words, “I ate out a” go to sleep on the Scrabble, the wife does not know how to anger by the steaming. Later, they gradually because the heart is no way to an altogether separate ways to the.

Man to intimate, in fact, also know “love” and her “sex” was. Here, men should remember two things: a woman is not necessarily made to yi lounging, lips slightly open only shows sexual needs; Second, sexual needs, not insist you massive construction projects, the incense burner to do “package “Love, perhaps she just needs a hug to let her breath, or a fully clothed lying on the chat.

Chinese women like subtle and sometimes overly depressed, afraid to express their feelings, especially the “nature” sound, the result, in effect put it into a twisted flame, nagging and other negative emotions or state. Men in itself careless, often do not understand these special Beloved to “sex” was a result, the rift deepened the feelings of each other and affect the quality of marriage. So, you want to wife’s heart is not cold, so she was suspicious, suspicious, usually you have more heart, or even more to the “distorted” Department to think about old problems might be solved, new problems have also saved the day.

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No open flame: his wife, if somehow temper, throw things rattle, sat down to earth will be “shaking three shakes”, you should review, how long there is no “trouble” over her. What is “contentment,” Contentment is happiness, is peace of mind, and now she is not happy, but also restless, shows you some alienated her body was. Her body in the protest, in fact, she has no control over, so tonight, you have to take comfort her. Struggle over the ancient palace, conspiracy, in fact, that is, too many women are busy, but the emperor to a man’s sake. Man is the woman best fire extinguisher.
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Nagging: Woman love to eat snacks, because the lonely, the old era of concubines like Kegua Zi, the East West family short parents to tell tales, is the lack of master’s nourishment, is a lot of explaining the performance of loneliness. The best antidote to loneliness is to love a man of course, coax, or arch up. “Arch” Perhaps the word indecent, as if the verb pig, but it means that features of participation, is the most emotional intimacy. Women are emotional, as long as you come to a forehead bumped her, she would happy, that you not only to narrow, but rather in love.

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Deliberate virtuous: a Tolerance is the eve of volcanic eruptions, so you have to quickly respond to, or be responsible for the consequences of your own. Her low profile, her hard work, do you see, in fact, is to touch your heart, you rewarded her. The easiest way is to hand wash your underwear at her, thrown around from behind her ear close to her whisper or disgusting, do not mean your praise or some “dirty” words. She “is” and is “too positive,” and then, your “evil” is its nectar, is the yin-yang complementarity.

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Illness: She Santianliangtou called pain, call pain, but not to see a doctor, in fact, she is secretly watching you helplessly to see what reaction you have to see you nervous yet? Concerned yet? In fact, she may just be an “emotional pain” and multi-position is ambiguous areas, such as waist, shoulders, buttocks, or even what palpitations. You must not be taken lightly, should pay attention to the most like an ant on a hot pan, have guard consciousness. When you are anxious lost in a fog, she is happy, Anshuang’s. If you could cope with her massage hammer back, scraping, with eyes affixed temperature measuring her forehead … … the more comfortable she is obviously no medication.

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Lots of entertainment: that one day you find your wife colorful way busy, but also in non-office hours, you have to pay attention. She exaggerated their excitement in the phone, then look no choice, just like there are endless jump ball, drinking endless coffee, or Dabu Wan ball humming in her make-up … … when you’re in her not far away. She was drunk “woman” is not the meaning of wine, she wants you to retain her pace in the past, it is in the “In the Mood protest.” Are you a long time did not accompany her to “play”, believe me, your consciousness is not too late now, your word, you can keep her: “I’m jealous!”
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Coquetry: Maybe she was originally not good Fadia, and suddenly one day, she pestered you to buy food to eat children, or children made up of child language, or like to fuss, as if everything depends on you, and mount you. Some of you may be tired, even touched her forehead and deliberately said, “Oh no fever,” but she has hinted to you, she needs you to cuddle, treat a child, she had no defenses, she as long as you push deep infiltration, there is no truth, as long as you.

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Trifle multiply: pinch you, hit you, harass you, touch you … … the skin is clearly in the “hungry” state, is a woman with skin breathe, how long you did not touch her? Stroke can be physical activities, including speech stroke, positive praise her, then grabbed her restless hands, on the lips, kissing, electricity, and then each sensor. There is no real savage woman, only the men ignored barren woman.

These are all men, women are not enough of a disguised expression of love and sex, complaints, men like to go to the “crooked office” would like, especially in love or when mixed in the outside world. However, under the eaves of a marriage, seems to be insensitive, they do not move “crooked mind” that the wife is absolutely stable objects, idle does not matter. In fact, a great relationship, it is a woman’s fried man, if you grip the hearts of women, she can turn around and walk out. Coax a woman is good, but definitely not good neglected. In the dull marriage life, remember that from time to time to the “distorted” Department would like to, as poet to the “U.S.” Office would like to, then spare your wife physically and mentally in love article, as farmers happy spring.

Hong Kong newspaper said: In 2009, age and unmarried women in Hong Kong
The ratio of unmarried men age at 100:70 Hong Kong, Hong Kong and female great trend of poor sales. The Hong Kong and the Hong Kong men and women in marriage stance on the opposition has become increasingly evident, Hong Kong and Hong Kong women do not want to find a man, the biggest reason is that Hong Kong
Men do not make progress. The Hong Kong men are unwilling to find the girl in Hong Kong because of anything against their vanity and sense of dependence. In this trend, Hong Kong Hong Kong men and women who have set our sights on the mainland, had been their sister and the Mainland Mainland disdain Aberdeen
Today is a very sought after.

To do this, “Qiang Qiang” deliberately made a program to be
Go to the guests the same color for men, women to talk about Hong Kong is also frowned: very short, not beautiful, but also special vanity … … most annoys them are: Hong Kong women generally dependent heart. One guest said: Hong Kong girls earn their own
Are used to purchase a LV bag, if a man is not a dinner party without a car, and your car would rather put the garage refused to open, and men support the family is natural for them to do, not with the men support the family share of
Responsibility. Mainland girls are different, some Hong Kong men to the mainland to work, female colleagues occasionally invite them to dinner, not refused to pay the bill AA system, which makes Hong Kong a man greatly appreciated.

Social change, and can make money and are willing to support the family of the woman began to be men of all ages. Hong Kong man at least, believes that the mainland is not dependent heart girls. But two days ago to see reports that college students graduate “flash marriage” has the shortest record was broken, more than 300 minutes of long distance events on the settlement of marriage and asked the reason, or old-fashioned way: finding a job difficult to find someone as married directly.
Difficult to find a job, so go find someone and married off, this not
A kind of attachment heart? Mainland girl’s heart is really attached to less than Hong Kong girls? No secret to say that we have never been completely dispelled by the idea of married life to change. Call after the founding of gender equality, women also quite half of the sky, when the good girl image generally sturdy badly and was drying red face, the background is the vast expanse of the wheat. The image of masculinity that women never returned, reform and opening up, especially in recent years, looking for wealthy, for the money to do
Primary three are the common thing, wanted to marry a person who had a stable economic strength is a lot of time thinking of girls. But this is not the heart to prove our attachment to it in the rise? Man Road, the famous host said: girls looking for a job as a
Like to find a man, and can not say how strong attachment to her heart, this is a way to solve the problem.

Hong Kong girl’s heart is a tradition of attachment, they even called for men, the women stay home, so they have a good income, even unwilling to supplement the family income. But to marry her boyfriend to find the mainland looking for work as girls, marriage is designed to quickly complete a change of life, which may be a good opportunity to achieve in life through marriage and other ideals.

So, you see, by marriage to change the fate of not a shameful thing, every woman should learn to rely on marriage to change anything. Ye Hao economic conditions, living status Ye Hao, attitude and savoir-faire Ye Hao, in a word marriage is not a single person can solve some problems of.

To some extent, have to go with the mentality of looking for work boyfriend. Since the work easy to find, first find a boyfriend, get married, and so easy to find, and then out seeking a job properly, or simply create a business pool with her boyfriend. Most of the mainland girls have on the design of life. After getting married, so good wife and mother, of course
Is also an option, but not to avoid idle, do not want to participate in social work. Many housewives who are good workers, for them, the housewife is a job.

Health Guidance: Many women often complain about with other people, why her husband did not attach importance to myself, why her husband love to watch those beautiful women on the street, why do not want my husband home from work, why they can not be enough to attract her husband. All these problems do not know how many troubled women.

Women have complained that the man asking for too much, he not only ask you to get on the hall, Entering the kitchen, but also ask you to humor, smart, elegant, lovely face of it, they should be able to seize the heart of the woman her husband is really good said than done. Today happened to see a “happy woman HAPPY buy” book, this is a weird name, is called “child his mother” of users to use the comic performance of the state of their life in a book, just a few hours watching the All content, let me how to do a new era with the charm of a woman all of a sudden new understanding, only share with you here.
First, to humor

This is a full-opportunity of women, a few years only to lag behind the others on Taobao million more than her witty language used to explain the course of her follow suit, and the husband of the dialogue, often with humor and wit, revealed, to her husband obediently willing to be captured, kept for years to save money she paid for her lost treasure.
Second, try to change the

Many women get married before the youthful, after marriage, be willing to become Huanglian Po on the ranks, not a man like dirty women, many changes in the image, try all kinds of fashion elements, even if your husband does not boast your mouth, heart, will to maintain the freshness of your time, but the author of the book is familiar with the Tao.
Third, open-minded attitude

This book has to say to me a deep impression: a woman born a man to spend money, you do not have to take him to the other woman flowers and tone to trouble another woman, or I come! A look is a particularly want to open the Zhu Er, not every day that her husband allowed near other people look at women, men, you are the more petty, every glance retired tight, he will run faster.
Fourth, learn to get along

Coexistence between men and women is a deep knowledge, need to adjust their mentality and more, and more patience the other side, as the book of his: a woman should be a magnet, not a rope, tied him than to attract him.
5, to be a small woman

The book ye look like a character straight on, Taidalielie a person who, in fact, you will find her reading is simply a mess with a man caressing a small woman, typical would be spoiled, be self-willed, will overbearing, a small woman will be sensible Such women are the most colorful and most men like to recruit.
6, so that a harmonious family atmosphere

Each mind is a family who want a safe haven for their own, if your husband always felt at home on the smoke is thick, or bench him to do, or mother-and daughter waiting for him to resolve conflicts between I am afraid, a few days he would rather stay in a hotel was. Learn the author, lively approach to good with family members, the relationship of each individual.
7, be confident

Must have self-confidence. Do not always think that with age men are not interested in you will also try to try to fashion clothing, loud laughing, making new friends, of refined look, women over the age of 30 after more rely on personal charisma to infect humans, then the culture of this fascinating condition that must be confident.
Xiao Bian Conclusion: Institute of the above points, you will find the charm of a new era do women have not been difficult, but you get the rewards you must be surprised, and was obsessed with the taste of her husband believe that no woman could try to .

Case: Ling and Ma Hui 20 56, just married less than a year. When in love, every day felt tired in one of the two is the happiest day, They are busy dating less than six months into a marriage on the sacred temple. After a short honeymoon, the couple lived a fairly satisfactory Xiao Rizi. But this time it did not last long, not separated two months, they began to constantly fight, quarrel because the little things in life are caused, what food to eat, who will work to see what channels, etc., 3 Tianyi a little noisy argument with a time of five days long, the two are not willing to stay in a fiery speech at home, two people at home Shiyou dry all of the communication between each other, over time, after the two sides do not feel great with premarital the same as the two familiar strangers.

Expert Diagnosis: According to the statistics show that marriage is not so easy to maintain. Particular year and a half to two years after the honeymoon period will be passing wind, “then all will fall into the illusion of reality into the abyss,” After the shock, the approximately 70% of the couples marital satisfaction will reduced and will not rebound. “

For this just married or intend to marry people, most attention focused on the wedding and honeymoon, the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences Research Office of Sociology of marriage and family, said Wang Zhenyu, this wedding stage is a run-in period needed, If the two sides running bad the situation can easily occur. However, this process has real natural, because the couple had to come from two different families, in the way of life and communication are different, down to as rest time, tastes and so on, these little things living are particularly vulnerable to cause friction, quarrel or dispute.

The key point is the lack of premarital education, lack of adequate physical and psychological preparation for marriage, lack of understanding and awareness. Marriage is not purely to enjoy life, this process is lengthy and will suffer a lot of psychological frustration. At the peak of young men and women in love often clash on the marriage and the specific real-life conflicts like too little for the future of life do not fully prepared mentally, psychologically so problems can not be met.

Specialized agencies in the United States alone, such as the Church on the threshold of marriage, the couple for marriage counseling and training, counseling for married couples to help players avoid bad combination, and enrich the existing relationship. It is reported that, as early as 10 years ago, the United States have participated in numerous new engagement provided by the church marriage service plan.